showering

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  1. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    i'm just wondering if anyone else here has issues with showering? i feel vunerable and isolated when i shower and it makes it a very stressful situation for me. my mum doesnt understand it and shouts at me when i go about my "ritual" for getting ready for my shower. i'm just wondering if anyone else goes through the same thing
     
  2. ZombiePringle

    ZombiePringle Forum Buddy and Antiquities Friend

    I get a trapped feeling when I shower. I tend to only shower once every 3 days...its kinda gross but sometimes showers freak me out. and when I take them I rush through them as fast as I can.
     
  3. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    i used to hide in the bathroom to get away from my family here and still take long showers and i suppose i do go through a ritual, and when i was 14/15 i was compulsive with being clean and had rituals that would take hours. instead of feeling vulnerable, it was and is safety/soothing for me.

    is there any way of telling your mother to back off because what she's doing might not help you one bit if you're feeling anxious and vulnerable bathing?
     
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  4. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    I don't shower for a while when I'm really depressed, which is most of the time.
     
  5. Godsdrummer

    Godsdrummer Guest

    I don't shower a lot usually because I sleep in too late during the work week.

    If you guys feel closed in when you shower, you would HATE my shower. I do and I normally love to shower. It's basically 1/2 the length of a standard bathtub, with an oblong oval shaped shower curtain rod that goes up on top with a white plastic shower curtain that sits inside the tub and give 3/4 privacy. :wink:
     
  6. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    mine is 1/4 of a bathtub it's square and it's got a shower curtain. it's tiny and people who'd feel trapped, would feel worse.
     
  7. Godsdrummer

    Godsdrummer Guest

    I will say this though....one good thing about being single is that I can pee in the shower! :biggrin:
     
  8. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    the rituals do "soothe" my nerves to a certain extent but its still a very stressful activity and i dont know why. i cant talk to my mum about it cause she will just dismiss it and say i'm making it up/lying
     
  9. cult logic

    cult logic Staff Alumni

    I love showering. My own warm little place.

    Hell, I'd sleep in there if I wouldn't drown.
     
  10. Maaso

    Maaso Well-Known Member

    +1

    After I shave and clean and all that, I turn the water temp WAY up to where it us just below scalding. And I stand there and just soak in it. I love it.
     
  11. Neverhappyalwayssad

    Neverhappyalwayssad Well-Known Member

    I love showering. I usually stay in there for 15 mins, just thinking. Its very relaxing to me, all while wasting water lol.
     
  12. BriGuy

    BriGuy Antiquities Friend

    I used to like showering more... because it was huge. Now the new place it's just a small square... and because of my disability, I have to sit on a shower chair... so it's very cramped! But I have to have a walk-in type shower, I can't use a bathtub type...

    But lately, I don't like showers because I cry every time I am in the shower... it's actually a good place to be able to cry without anyone knowing... but I don't like crying anymore, so I don't like showering anymore. Between the size, feeling cramped... and crying... the shower doesn't appeal to me much right now.

    Plus, I like SHARING the shower with someone special, and this one is way too small for that!
     
  13. Aurora Gory Alice

    Aurora Gory Alice Well-Known Member

    I hate baths but I love to shower. I wish I had one in my house, I could spend forever in there as well. The water falling down onto me, there's just something so soothing about it all.
     
  14. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    i used to be scared of showers in high school. i hope you get over your fears.
     
  15. Brighid Moon

    Brighid Moon Member & Antiquities Friend

    I have a fear of showers for some reason. It developed into panic attacks, recently, but then went away again. I think the panic attacks are over, all that's left is the fear of them which causes a constant state of anxiety. When I was having them, I'd wash up in the sink.
     
  16. ~Tosh~

    ~Tosh~ Forum Buddy

    no, i dont have a shower, i have a bath, i like laying there with my head under the water the silence... showers i just usually end up sat in the bottom corner crying for no reason, mainly when im on courses with work, they get stressfull and crying in the shower makes it lil bit better :hug:
     
  17. SadDude87

    SadDude87 Well-Known Member

    Love showering, hate getting out
     
  18. jameslyons

    jameslyons Well-Known Member

    I usually like showering, but sometimes I start to disassociate in it. I think it triggers something grim occasionally. But overall I like it
     
  19. plates

    plates Well-Known Member

    i used to do that when i was younger. really, i used to doze for an hour there.
     
  20. The Scream

    The Scream Well-Known Member

    i love showering too...
    i can be in there for hours xD

    later when i have my own place and stuff i wanna buy a huge showerhead first... those are super sweet hehe... like you're standing outside in the rain... <3
     
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