Wasn't sure where else to put this. It may get moderated but this is an honest question. I had money put aside to buy the final item I needed for my exit, now it comes up that my ex needs the money to fix the van that my name is still on, She is the one driving it to use for chores and taking the kids to school and such and she let's her roommate use it whenever it's needed. So the question is be nice and give the money to her or buy what I was wanting to. Either way i lose and it just makes the end a bit tougher but doesn't stop it.