Since my grandfather passed away, I live with two nags. My mother and my grandmother are both impossible. Yes, I love them but living with them makes everything hard and I can not wait until the day where I have the security to leave. The only time I have peace is when they go out shopping. All they do is bitch. They both have loud mouths. It is not that bad when it is only my grandmother at home or only my mother, but both of them at the same time is soooooo bad. My mom is basically annoying and almost childish. I sometimes attribute it to the fact that she is a youngest child. Seriously, I have more maturity than her. She will loudly baby talk to the dog for hours. It makes me want to kill somebody. My grandmother is a nervous wreck most of the time. She watches television way too much and she mostly watches the news. Then, she makes a big deal out of all the negative stories she hears and she overestimates the crime rate. Most of the time she can't even understand the stories she watches because her comprehension of English is terrible. If I ever want to go out late, she will start yelling about some story she heard on television. Lately, I really miss my grandfather. He was so quiet and just peaceful. Although he was ten years older than my grandmother, he was not as uptight and old fashioned as my grandmother because he was actually educated. My mom can be liberal with me sometimes too now that I am actually an adult, but she is much too clingy and attached. I wish she would have had more children. My dad has other kids, so he doesn't give a damn about me. I'm not saying that is good, but maybe my mother wouldn't be so controlling if there were other kids she had to worry about. We fight about everything. She even will not accept the fact that I have different taste in men than she does. Honestly, the closest my mom and I were was last summer when we were literally an ocean apart. We talked on the phone everyday, but I didn't have a constant nag! My grandmother loosened up without my mother as well.