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so finally i grew some balls and kick that peice of lying controlling shit out of my life.. ive moved back to kent and id like to say im happy but i guess im not exactly there yet.. but soon hopefully.. i found out he'd been cheating on with about 6 other girls.. while i played the doating little house wife who did exactly what i was told..

i dont think so anymore. i gave up being needy along time ago.. the only person i can rely on is my damnself too many haters out there.. i am now a fully qulified RGN working at my local hospital.

i am looking to do midwifing very soon..

i have a decent group of friends although im still wary of them i know i can walk away whenever i like.

to all the people that said id never make it..


I did this all by myself without anyones help.
so what makes you think i need you now?
everyone that held me back i really hope this makes you feel sick.
because ive betterd myself.. im doing something with my life that i love!
all you ever did was try to stop me for your own benefit.

I earn my own money.. i pay for my own place i pay my own way.
and if thats too much for you then i dont really care anymore.
i am independant. i dont need other people to live off of.

total eclipse

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I am so proud of YOU way to go okay and don't go back You keep moving forward You sound so much like me i showed them all too I look after me noone else does that You can do anything you can and i hope you make new friends at you work place and find someone who will treat you as an equal hugs to you so much:hugtackles::hugtackles::hugtackles:


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good job, by posting this, you are giving hope to everyone who are suffering in pain right now, thank you for your courage, because it gives everyone else whos reading your story hope.

you are a hero to many on this forum, please keep us updated


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Whey to go!! Being independant feels great.. I use to be that way twenty years ago..Set your goals high and shoot for the stars..


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oh aimee brilliant
thats such good news well done on becoming an rgn
oh you dont know how happy i am for you little miss independant
thank you so much for letting us know im so proud of you
i think you just made my day xx


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Its a good day!!!!!

You go girl and I hope that this new attitude takes you far in life and gets that happiness that you so deserve.


I know it hasnt been a easy thing to do and that its hard work what your going through but your going to be okay, how long has it been since youve been able to tell yourself that? Remember that when he comes crawling back begging, that you are okay without him, that you can do it and you can do it better than hes ever been able to do it before.

Well done!! I hate men who think they can control women like that, but may i also add that not all men are like that and i hope what happened to you won't stop you from finding love again :)
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