It's the little steps that bring such relief. Re-homed some of my animals today. One less thing for the wife to deal with later. I'm just tired. This will help a lot. Still a lot of small steps to go, but today's actions helped. They all think it's simply because I feel overwhelmed. I will not tell them otherwise (after all, feeling overwhelmed is part of all this). I just want out. fIf I wouldn't be worried about my family being traumatized, I would do it today. But they are here, No way. They have been through enough with me. Not going to make it worse today.