SMART Goals - Small steps to success

Discussion in 'Strategies for Success' started by Butterfly, Apr 10, 2014.

  1. Butterfly

    Butterfly Resident SF Sims Enthusiast Staff Alumni SF Author SF Supporter

    Goal setting is especially important when recovering from depression, but are the goals we set too high for ourselves to achieve? When we are depressed, setting goals helps us to edge ourselves out of the depression we are in, gives us a sense of purpose and makes us feel like we have achieved something. But the problem with goal setting is that we tend to set the bar too high for ourselves, setting ourselves up for failure. When we are depressed, we become our harshest critic and become perfectionists, and often when it comes to goal setting there is no grey area, so if we don't achieve our goals we immediately see ourselves as failures.

    Sometimes it is not about achieving the big goals, but achieving smaller goals that end up building towards the bigger picture. To do this we need to set ourselves smaller but more realistic goals. The SMART Goals tool can help set realistic and achievable goals.

    Specific - Be very clear in what you want to achieve. Consider breaking the goal down into smaller steps. For example, "achieving wellness" is not very specific, but, "Going for a walk in the park for an hour every day" is more specific and to the point.

    Measurable - How will you know when you have achieved your goal? What will you be doing at that times? What will others notice you doing? What will be different? What will you have started or be doing regularly? What will you have stopped doing or be doing less of?

    Achievable - Ensure your goals are not set too high and you set yourself up to fail. Consider setting smaller goals on your way to achieving a bigger one. Celebrate your successes. If you don't achieve what you set out to do, then ask yourself what you could do differently, what would make it more likely to succeed next time?

    Realistic and Resourced - Is this goal achievable with the resources I have? Are there any other resources you need before you can, or to help you achieve your goal? How can you access these resources? What problems might you have? What can you do to minimise those problems?

    Time Limited - Set a reasonable time to achieve your goal. 1 week, 1 month, 6 months, 1 year, 5 years? Consider different (smaller) time limits for smaller steps.

    So that is how to create a SMART goal. Why don't we all share our SMART goals and successes in this thread???
  2. Butterfly

    Butterfly Resident SF Sims Enthusiast Staff Alumni SF Author SF Supporter

    I will start off by making a goal :)

    My goal is to go for a walk for half an hour each day. I would like to achieve this goal within the next 3 months. I can do this by walking round the block, or driving out to the countryside for a more quiet walk.
  3. Freya

    Freya Loves SF Staff Member ADMIN

    My goal is to deal with my finances - specifically the three places that keep calling/writing about owed payments that I am currently dealing with by sticking my head in the sand.

    I will phone two of these places and put a payment plan in place. I will write to the third and tell them I dispute the debt.
    I will do this by Monday evening.
  4. soulreaper

    soulreaper Well-Known Member

    use my exercise once a day for 30minutes, brush my teeth once a week, have a shower once a day, walk once a week. eat breakfast lunch and dinner.
  5. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    My goal is to eat healthy, 90% of my diet to consist of nuts, fruits and veggies, milk and honey. and I will start by buying those groceries ASAP.
  6. Butterfly

    Butterfly Resident SF Sims Enthusiast Staff Alumni SF Author SF Supporter

    I am pleased to say that I have achieved my smart goal, mostly :) I don't go out every day but I do most days :)
  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Well done lexi, you much feel much more healthy :hug: