I am just about smiling. What did I expect after all? If relatives and friends and 'in authority' haven't listen so far why should good samaritans do? Got the hint. Either people are lucky or they aren't. If I wasn't requested to be there in time of need for a relative I'd be gone so got to postpone for a few days. Fuck people! I'll fulfill my fucking 'duty' towards others and then will take care of my own needs alone as always. If that's what it takes, so be it. I give up. p.s. i posted a question on letters to management and a pm to administration. could at least this site answer or how am I to understand the no answers?