so be it!

[RySp123]

I am just about smiling. What did I expect after all? If relatives and friends and 'in authority' haven't listen so far why should good samaritans do? Got the hint. Either people are lucky or they aren't. If I wasn't requested to be there in time of need for a relative I'd be gone so got to postpone for a few days.

Fuck people! I'll fulfill my fucking 'duty' towards others and then will take care of my own needs alone as always. If that's what it takes, so be it. I give up.

p.s. i posted a question on letters to management and a pm to administration. could at least this site answer or how am I to understand the no answers?

 

[~PinkElephants~]

You should worry about you and not about others. In the end you are the most important person at the end of the day. It's nice and noble that you are helping family members, but where aree tehy when you need help. If they aren't willing to give and all they do is take..do not give anymore. I know that's harder said then done but maybe they will get a hint.

As for mods not answering PM's or LTM...they too are human, have issues, and need to worry about them. If they don't get to you promptly they will eventually, just need patience.

Take care.

 

[gentlelady]

I am sorry samaritans didn't give you what you were looking for. I believe you were answered in LTM within half an hour of your post. As for the rest, I cannot say. I do wish your family would be more understanding of you. You should have a voice and be able to say what and how you feel. you are every bit as important as they are. You do matter. Your thoughts and feelings do matter. Do something special for yourself and for once don't worry about what they think. You deserve to be taken care of. :hug: