Last year I met my first and only friend in highschool. He was very nice and he would always ask me to help him with his problems. He claims he has issues with rejection and abandonment. He said he would never reject/abandon someone unless a dire circumstantial comes up. I didn't think about this too seriously at the time. Anyways at the end of that year he would always leave me to go play basketball. I took this as a sign of abandonment and I would lose trust in my "best friend" more and more everyday. At the last day I finally snapped, I gave him the cold shoulder and said good bye. During that summer he called me up and he asked for a second chance, and I gave it to him, bad mistake. So we made up and continued to hang out and I thought this would never happen again, I was wrong. School started on Tuesday and again he leaves me and goes and plays basketball... I MEAN ARE YOU SERIOUS?! WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!! This made me want to SCREAM!! Did I do something wrong?! I always did what I thought he wanted to do... Now I feel rejected, alone , angry, and stupid... Is my "best friend" being selfish?