I've never been able to figure anything out on this. There are aspects to this kind of a thing that just seems to be beyond my comprehension, such as: A) the right amount of time spent together before you ask them out B) Being 'exclusive.' Apparently it's socially acceptable to date multiple people unless your in an 'exclusive' relationship. How do you know if you're 'exclusive?' C) How to even get time to get to know each other, like two people in different grades but in the same spanish class? Honestly, I'm just clueless. I have no idea how to go about anything concerning girls other than idle conversation and smartass remarks. To be honest, I kinda want to know how to get friendly with this girl in one of my classes, but she's a year younger than me (she's a sophomore) and higher than me in the social castes of high school. I mean, we listen to the same music, so maybe strike up conversation about that?