My boyfriend and I met online on a game called Furcadia. We started out only knowing each other's pixels there, but after a while of having talked with one another via that method and skype, we finally met in person. I was living in North Carolina at the time, he in Texas. Needless to say, we fell in love. And I moved down to Texas with him, but due to the fact that we didn't have a house of our own to move in, we've been living with his parents. As of today, it would be near seven months that we have been living together in his parent's house. I had two cats, but since his father is deathly allergic, I wasn't able to bring them with me. I didn't mind that too much honestly, because I had family in North Carolina who said they'd watch my two for me until we found a place. Well, months later, I get word that they are rehoming my cats. This stressed me out a great deal, but there was also trouble brewing in the online community that he and I decided to join after I moved in with him. Just recently, he got a two-week ban from the community for having flown off the cuff at some situations. I'm generally one that will take a step back when I feel myself about to go overboard, and I'll look at the situation from a different point of view so that I can see all sides. I was allowed to stay within the community during his two-week ban. But recently, more things have been happening, and I actually was caught up in drama myself. This was the first and only time I ever went to the admin to discuss it, but I felt nothing was actually being done to rectify the situation. My boyfriend saw this, and again flew off the cuff. I am extremely sensitive to others emotions, and this second time that he blew his lid, I blew up as well. And I did something I shouldn't have. Now we both are not only banned from that community, but also another which we never actually interacted with any of the players in. And I feel due to his reckless actions, it is going to continue to spiral downward. He's not just hurting himself, he's hurting the one he loves. And I just don't know what to do anymore.