I was wondering generally about problem solving in the mind. Is it something that is internal or external? Should we be looking for happiness within or change our exterior surroundings. Jim Carrey once said something about everyone having a flaw, a grain of sand in the oyster and people base their personality around it. Should we look to eradicate flaws or own them? I am just so confused as to how to approach life, it all just seems such effort and too easy for everyone else.