I have been married almost six years now, and we seem to have a problem getting out of the newlywed phase. We are both still so childish, and spoiled in our own ways. It wouldn't be so bad if we were BOTH working on getting out of this phase but WE don't hardly do anything as a team yet. It is really a struggle for me personally, because every time I make an effort I fail by the lack of effort on the other end. Some days I just want to throw a huge all out tantrum. Yes the type where kids generally throw themselves down and flop their hands and feet against the floor screaming in frustration. Its funny now that I think about it, but it's honest. Of course me being twenty-nine years old stops me from displaying such behavior, but there is really no other way to relieve this frustration. I have talked and talked and talked.......................................about what is hurting us as a couple and why we struggle. For what?? An agreeing nod of the head and a empty promise of more effort. Being married is supposed to be about teamwork!! There is no I in TEAM yet I am all alone in this or at least it feels like it. Don't really know what to say other than thanks for reading this.