ya sorry I wont continue to drag it off topic like I have, just hate seeing her upset, and knowing why, and not pointing out the fact that without some sort of resolution this will keep happening.
Im really sorry your going through this Terry, being a mod on a site like this has to be difficult job, perhaps take a break for few days and come back to it...or maybe even consider whether you want to keep doing it all? You have a lot on your plate.
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