sorry to bother you again = [

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by emogirl, Jul 7, 2008.

  1. emogirl

    emogirl Well-Known Member

    But i think i've done something wrong. = [

    Well i meet this lad on sunday and he was really interested in me and i liked him to. But i've started going with him and unforturely i'm still not over my ex. I went in the pub on sunday to. The barmaid told me my ex was in on Thursday and she asked him Where's Jodie? He just started crying apparently. But i think he was back with his other ex then so i dunno whats wrong with him.

    Also i was reminded of one of my other exes today because i found the ring my grandma give me on my 16th but it was my nanas ring. But somehow it came to me that this ex gave me this ring when i was 15 and on Valentines day he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him but he said he was only joking and gave me the ring and i dont know about him lol and now i've lost the ring he gave me and i really want to find it again so im going to try and look for it.

    But mainly i dont think im ready for a relationship and i dont want to break this guys heart.
  2. innocencexisxlove

    innocencexisxlove Well-Known Member

    :hug: it's hard to move on.. for everyone.

    just take things slow. and don't rush anything.

    take your time.

    best of luck:hug:
  3. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    Well first of all, you're not bothering anyone :hug:

    If you don't let your feelings for your ex interfere with your new relationship, doesn't sound like it would be too big of a problem to me.
    If it's really bothering you, there's nothing wrong with taking some time for yourself and just not being in any relationship for a while.

    Hope you figure everything out :arms:
  4. emogirl

    emogirl Well-Known Member

    thank you but i still cant get over what happened to me at 15 =[
  5. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    We are all different and this also means that it takes a different amount of time for each person to heal. For some it's a couple of months, for others it's a couple of years or even more, it may even take a very long time. So don't let the amount of time it's taking you to move on trouble you.

    Also you've just come out of a relationship, so it is most likely best you don't persue another one for a while.