This is going to be long so please stick with me.
Sometimes in our lives things change us from the people we are. Sometimes it is a conscious decision, other times it just happens. Whether you change for the good, the bad and yes even the ugly, you should consider how this change affects others. Some of you may be thinking, wait a minute didn’t she just say you don’t know what brought about the change”, and you’d be right. However I didn’t say you wouldn’t notice the change. You may not notice it right away but on some level you will see it.
You may wonder what type of change I am referring to and the easy answer is any change. But this isn’t meant to be easy. This is meant to make you think about who you are, who you used to be, and is intended to get you to wonder if you like who you have become. If you like who you are that’s great and I am happy for you. If you don’t maybe you can change it. I am more interested in you who have become story tellers. From what I can tell it didn’t always used to be that way but somehow you guys are headed that way. I don’t doubt that in the beginning you were genuinely hurting and doing things that you shouldn’t be doing to cope. What I do doubt now is the honesty behind the stories.
I know the laws are different everywhere. Whether you are in the States, Australia, Canada, Europe, England, or Mexico. To some extent they are all the same. Healthcare is also the same in a lot of aspects. I can speak for the States at least that healthcare is getting ready to change so I understand things do change. On some level though they all have Hippocratic Oath they go by, to do no harm to others.
It took 3 paragraphs to get to one of my main points, if you read this far, thanks. Anyhow, when you spurt of things like, I died they brought me back to life and I went home an hour later, or I tried to kill myself and the cops didn’t even care or try to stop me, you make people not trust you. Those are just 2 examples of what has been happening lately on here. There are people on here who do hurt deeply and have very little hope. What if their hope was that there are still honest people in the world, good people. By lying to them you have come in and in one clean swoop taken that away from them. Who are we to do that to someone?
Over the years here at SF I have seen more and more “fakers” than should ever be one site, or in the world. You guys are hurting people, me included. I don’t know what is worse being lied to or knowing someone who has been lied to and feeling their pain. I want to caution everyone on who you trust and open up to. Not everyone is who they say they are. If you have been hurt or burned by someone on this site my heart goes out to you. If you have hurt or burned someone, take a long look at yourself, and think when did I become this person? If you are going around telling stories and you think no one is paying attention you are very wrong. We won’t break confidentiality but we do “compare notes.” I hope in reading this you realize you aren’t getting away with what you think you are. We all talk to each other. Members, staff, everyone, we all talk.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, stop telling stories. If you want love and attention just say so. Don’t toy with other people’s emotions, it doesn’t do any good. So for your sake and ours please stop. You know who you are…
Sometimes in our lives things change us from the people we are. Sometimes it is a conscious decision, other times it just happens. Whether you change for the good, the bad and yes even the ugly, you should consider how this change affects others. Some of you may be thinking, wait a minute didn’t she just say you don’t know what brought about the change”, and you’d be right. However I didn’t say you wouldn’t notice the change. You may not notice it right away but on some level you will see it.
You may wonder what type of change I am referring to and the easy answer is any change. But this isn’t meant to be easy. This is meant to make you think about who you are, who you used to be, and is intended to get you to wonder if you like who you have become. If you like who you are that’s great and I am happy for you. If you don’t maybe you can change it. I am more interested in you who have become story tellers. From what I can tell it didn’t always used to be that way but somehow you guys are headed that way. I don’t doubt that in the beginning you were genuinely hurting and doing things that you shouldn’t be doing to cope. What I do doubt now is the honesty behind the stories.
I know the laws are different everywhere. Whether you are in the States, Australia, Canada, Europe, England, or Mexico. To some extent they are all the same. Healthcare is also the same in a lot of aspects. I can speak for the States at least that healthcare is getting ready to change so I understand things do change. On some level though they all have Hippocratic Oath they go by, to do no harm to others.
It took 3 paragraphs to get to one of my main points, if you read this far, thanks. Anyhow, when you spurt of things like, I died they brought me back to life and I went home an hour later, or I tried to kill myself and the cops didn’t even care or try to stop me, you make people not trust you. Those are just 2 examples of what has been happening lately on here. There are people on here who do hurt deeply and have very little hope. What if their hope was that there are still honest people in the world, good people. By lying to them you have come in and in one clean swoop taken that away from them. Who are we to do that to someone?
Over the years here at SF I have seen more and more “fakers” than should ever be one site, or in the world. You guys are hurting people, me included. I don’t know what is worse being lied to or knowing someone who has been lied to and feeling their pain. I want to caution everyone on who you trust and open up to. Not everyone is who they say they are. If you have been hurt or burned by someone on this site my heart goes out to you. If you have hurt or burned someone, take a long look at yourself, and think when did I become this person? If you are going around telling stories and you think no one is paying attention you are very wrong. We won’t break confidentiality but we do “compare notes.” I hope in reading this you realize you aren’t getting away with what you think you are. We all talk to each other. Members, staff, everyone, we all talk.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, stop telling stories. If you want love and attention just say so. Don’t toy with other people’s emotions, it doesn’t do any good. So for your sake and ours please stop. You know who you are…