When the abuser leaves the family or when you leave them, the abuse is supposed to ease off if not stop...I wish! He is still bloody abusing my mum and me! he cant do the physical abuse anymore, but he is doing the emotional stuff which I personally found more damaging! Why the hell can't he jst leave us alone?! He is such a bully! I hate him! He is hurting my mum yet again and all I can do is sit back and watch. I feel so helpless and frustrated....Why won't he just let us live our lives?!