Women are deluding themselves. They think they can get as old and out of shape as they want but still land the perfect guy.
You know how many out of shape 40-something men I've seen trying to hit on attractive 20-something women?
Having unreasonable expectations regarding what kind of partner you're likely to attract is hardly a gendered thing.
I agree with the basic premise that issues primarily affecting men often go ignored by society and that men, as a whole, are often held overly accountable for the actions of a shitty minority.
None of which is meant to deny issues specific to women. Ultimately, I think men are seen by society as having more agency than they actually do, and women are seen as having less. And each side suffers consequences because of that.
It's the reason women aren't taken as seriously as men when they attempt to act. And why it's not taken as seriously when men are acted upon.
Or how, in general, women don't get enough credit for their contributions when things go right. But also why men often take an undue share of blame when things go wrong.
But somehow, any attempt to discuss these issues always devolves into people airing grievances about their romantic/sexual lives and somehow thinking that those kinds of issues are unique to members of their gender.
Seriously, 90-something-% of the problems people attribute to their gender, are really just
people problems that affect pretty much everyone.