Stop it

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by IV2010, Jun 18, 2010.

  1. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    Why do people have to be so cruel?
    Especially on here where we are already on the edge ready to jump....
    I'm sick of the way some keep putting others down....
    we don't take one step forward to be kicked back down...
    I get a lot of support here and hoped I might be some support back..
    but some don't seem to be here for the same reason....
    they just want to demean others...
    Well stop it already before you push us over the edge....
    Do you hear?
    Stop it..
  2. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    I agreee :hug: love you hun
  3. Rowan

    Rowan Banned Member

    I completely understand hun, I'm sorry :(
    I swear some people need to think before they say something... especially on here...
  4. Prof.Bruttenholm

    Prof.Bruttenholm Well-Known Member

    My cruelty is due to a lack of trust and depression.

    I apologize but I am what I am, perhaps it would be best if I left this forum.
    It seems to do no one any good.
  5. MadeOfGlass

    MadeOfGlass Well-Known Member

    I'm totally with you on this one, IV. :hug:
  6. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    IV!!!!! You've been nothing but adorable! Don't let a few naysayers bring you down. Keep talking to us, because you know some of us do really care!
  7. cult logic

    cult logic Staff Alumni

    Eh, life is full of dicks, I don't see why here should be any different.

    I can live with it.
  8. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Dont leave :hug:
  9. Prof.Bruttenholm

    Prof.Bruttenholm Well-Known Member

    I've been crude, rude, short with people, insulting, demeaning, offensive and crass, I've made no real progress and I see no reason to stay, I'd only hurt more people than I help and if I did succeed in helping myself, how many people would I hurt in the process?
  10. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    there is room for everyone on this forum..

    we are all here for the same reason..

    there's just no need for cruelty and name calling...

    it hurts...

    thanks everyone for caring...
  11. Rowan

    Rowan Banned Member

    If its anyone to leave, I believe it is my time to leave... but meh... I think Im going to.
  12. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    ..../ ._.. \
    ......|| || HUGZ IV
    ...._.' `-' '._
  13. dioxfre

    dioxfre New Member

    Many here arrive out of desperation; full of anger and loneliness that they did not ask for but were given. It's hard to face someone who says cruel things out of frustration, but keep in mind that everyone is in a rough patch. Most of the things that are said are not met. Lots of people here are in similar situations, so the best thing to do is sympathize. :)
  14. Bambi

    Bambi Well-Known Member

    I agree.
    I have one rule for certain that is "Don't take anyone down with me!". It is selfish to hurt inside then act out towards others and it shows a total lack of self control.
    To allow others to act out their pain and excuse it with their disorder/disease is to enable them and to keep them sick.
    I am known for allowing others to treat me as door mat and I recently allowed it to happen again using his illness as an excuse well enough was enough.
    I say it needs to stop here as well.
    Not just for the sake of others but also for the sake off the offending just serves to keep them sick when then need to get help with their problem, learn some self control and plain learn the old fashioned adage "If you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all"
    :arms: to you IV2010 I love you and your special.
  15. itmahanh

    itmahanh Senior Member & Antiquities Friend

    :arms: to all of you especially, prof. bruttenholm .just so ya know, others do understand you're hurting and a lot of what you say isnt intended to anyone in particular just the world in general. Dont think there are too many members who cant say they havent done the same things here or in real life at one time or another. It's only human.... so welcome to the club!
  16. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    We all deserve to be heard and you are no exception.
  17. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Iv rocks!!!!
  18. Forgotten_Man

    Forgotten_Man Well-Known Member

    :hug: lets all get along I agree :hugtackles:
  19. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    IV meh love :wub:
  20. Prof.Bruttenholm

    Prof.Bruttenholm Well-Known Member

    No one has to worry, I'm leaving