Sorry for the essay guys.
I have had issues with depression and anxiety pretty much all my life, I have been on medication since I was 14.
Things were bareable until about 3 years ago when I started suffering pain and feeling unwell. Things then started to snowball, I lost both my grandparents and became more and more depressed.
I suffer with chronic pain, I am in pain all day every day. Pain killers give no relief and the doctors don't really seem to care. My Mental health took a nose dive. It's been a crazy journey, some things have improved but for bad reasons.
My anxiety peaked at not being able to leave the house or drive. I was diagnosed with agoraphobia, panic disorder, GAD and Major Depressive Disorder. I didn't leave the house for near enough a year other than for appointments. I stopped talking to friends and isolated myself completely.
I have supportive parents but they don't have any problems mentaly and find it really hard to relate, even though the try.
I would cry all the time and it got to a point my parents would be crying with me. It was killing them not being able to help me and to see me in pain. I lost my head one day and had to leave. I came home about 6am and they were still up waiting for me, saying how they were worried I had done something stupid so from then I have stopped telling them what the doctors are saying. And trying to hide as best I can how I am feeling to stop them worrying.
Just before Christmas my father had a heart attack, and the only reason I am still holding on is to not hurt my family but I lost my mind. I have made detailed plans on how I would kill myself, I have researched and planned, even looked into going to Belgium for assisted suicide, but I got into a state that all of that went out of the window and I wasn't thinking logically anymore. I wasn't thinking about collateral or avoiding any of the things I had previously thought about. I attempted in a way that thinking logically I wouldn't have and it was by pure fluke and not thinking clearly that it didn't work out.
I was angry at myself that I had done that, that I would have let my brother find me. A friend commited suicide a few years ago and I saw the damage he left behind by letting his family member find him. I hurt myself and it felt good, It helped level me out and it's a good distraction, but it's now one more thing I stressfully have to hide from my parents and the doctors. I think if they ever found out it would push me over the edge.
Suicide for me is a logical decision, the only thing keeping me here is obligations to the people who love me but I am getting periods when I don't think logically, it's like I only look at what I have done after I have already done it. I have ended up on a motorway bridge and only snapped out of it when someone stopped and asked me if I was ok, I was mortified. I would never do anything that would risk hurting anyone else.
My thoughts race, I can't let myself sleep. I feel like i'm losing my mind sometimes. I have had CBT and DBT and Counseling and I pay to see a psychiatrist privately but I cannot be honest with them. I haven't ever admitted feeling suicidal, or self harm. I am ashamed of myself and worried about being locked up.
I have tried so many meds and had so many bad side effects that my anxiety is now stopping me taking my pills.
I don't know how long I can deal with this I feel like I'm losing control. I think about dying all day every day and then worry about dying in a vicious circle. My head tells me I should just do it right and get it over with so I know it's done right. If i get it over with I don't have to go through the same vicious cycle every day. I cannot keep myself distracted enough all the time.
The one plus is - I wasn't driving because of all the what if's and driving or riding my motorbike was always my release. I have started driving my car again and am able to visit 1 friend but still struggle sometimes and leave after only a few minutes. When I feel myself loosing it I will go for a drive or go somewhere. Or if my mood is so low I have to hide from my family. I have to distract myself because I can't trust myself anymore.
I can't be honest because I am already ashamed of myself. I am the only person with mental issues in my family and they're struggling. I don't know how to deal with things my head is in such a mess. I know I am not helping myself but my pain cannot be solved anyway so I also don't see the point. Sorry if this is a bit all over the place it's hard for me to keep my thoughts straight.
I have had issues with depression and anxiety pretty much all my life, I have been on medication since I was 14.
Things were bareable until about 3 years ago when I started suffering pain and feeling unwell. Things then started to snowball, I lost both my grandparents and became more and more depressed.
I suffer with chronic pain, I am in pain all day every day. Pain killers give no relief and the doctors don't really seem to care. My Mental health took a nose dive. It's been a crazy journey, some things have improved but for bad reasons.
My anxiety peaked at not being able to leave the house or drive. I was diagnosed with agoraphobia, panic disorder, GAD and Major Depressive Disorder. I didn't leave the house for near enough a year other than for appointments. I stopped talking to friends and isolated myself completely.
I have supportive parents but they don't have any problems mentaly and find it really hard to relate, even though the try.
I would cry all the time and it got to a point my parents would be crying with me. It was killing them not being able to help me and to see me in pain. I lost my head one day and had to leave. I came home about 6am and they were still up waiting for me, saying how they were worried I had done something stupid so from then I have stopped telling them what the doctors are saying. And trying to hide as best I can how I am feeling to stop them worrying.
Just before Christmas my father had a heart attack, and the only reason I am still holding on is to not hurt my family but I lost my mind. I have made detailed plans on how I would kill myself, I have researched and planned, even looked into going to Belgium for assisted suicide, but I got into a state that all of that went out of the window and I wasn't thinking logically anymore. I wasn't thinking about collateral or avoiding any of the things I had previously thought about. I attempted in a way that thinking logically I wouldn't have and it was by pure fluke and not thinking clearly that it didn't work out.
I was angry at myself that I had done that, that I would have let my brother find me. A friend commited suicide a few years ago and I saw the damage he left behind by letting his family member find him. I hurt myself and it felt good, It helped level me out and it's a good distraction, but it's now one more thing I stressfully have to hide from my parents and the doctors. I think if they ever found out it would push me over the edge.
Suicide for me is a logical decision, the only thing keeping me here is obligations to the people who love me but I am getting periods when I don't think logically, it's like I only look at what I have done after I have already done it. I have ended up on a motorway bridge and only snapped out of it when someone stopped and asked me if I was ok, I was mortified. I would never do anything that would risk hurting anyone else.
My thoughts race, I can't let myself sleep. I feel like i'm losing my mind sometimes. I have had CBT and DBT and Counseling and I pay to see a psychiatrist privately but I cannot be honest with them. I haven't ever admitted feeling suicidal, or self harm. I am ashamed of myself and worried about being locked up.
I have tried so many meds and had so many bad side effects that my anxiety is now stopping me taking my pills.
I don't know how long I can deal with this I feel like I'm losing control. I think about dying all day every day and then worry about dying in a vicious circle. My head tells me I should just do it right and get it over with so I know it's done right. If i get it over with I don't have to go through the same vicious cycle every day. I cannot keep myself distracted enough all the time.
The one plus is - I wasn't driving because of all the what if's and driving or riding my motorbike was always my release. I have started driving my car again and am able to visit 1 friend but still struggle sometimes and leave after only a few minutes. When I feel myself loosing it I will go for a drive or go somewhere. Or if my mood is so low I have to hide from my family. I have to distract myself because I can't trust myself anymore.
I can't be honest because I am already ashamed of myself. I am the only person with mental issues in my family and they're struggling. I don't know how to deal with things my head is in such a mess. I know I am not helping myself but my pain cannot be solved anyway so I also don't see the point. Sorry if this is a bit all over the place it's hard for me to keep my thoughts straight.