I don't want to make this long winded or angry, so I'll try to be brief. I am frustrated with my husband. It seems to me like he has real issue dealing with stress and anxiety. His job is certainly very stressful, but that stress seems to be the center of his thoughts and feelings. Often when he comes home he escapes into the computer room to play games or just sits there complaining all evening. He has very little motivation to do anything in the evenings or on weekends and it seems like he merely indulges his inertia. Things that would be routine for most people, like stopping to get some milk on the way home or cleaning a cat box only ever are done when I ask him to help me and are met with loud complaints. I will admit, there might be some resentment on my part. In the recent past, he hasn't always been as strong as I need him to be to help me when I've needed support and I've felt like I've had to take care of him even when I desperately need emotional care, which has been draining. I struggle with clinical depression and PTSD and I usually feel that I'm always alone with it. He also doesn't give me the daily affection I feel I need and his sex drive has basically evaporated. I know I can be confrontational, and that he tends to simply shut down when I'm like this, so I've really tried hard to be supportive, to talk to him as long as he wants about work, or to try and distract him with a nice meal or something fun to do (which he usually just complains about, anyway). I do ALL of the housework, yard care, repairs, and home improvement and still work more than full time. I've tried to get him into therapy, and succeeded in getting him to one appointment, but that was where is stopped. He's even lied about having contacted therapists for appointments. I feel stuck. . .