So this thread isn’t about me. Not at all. Its more about my brother. I’m extremely worried about him. He’s 25 and has dyspraxia, he’ll be 26 in a few weeks. However for the last year he has been on and off with this girl called Tara. At first we thought yes, he’s found someone he can relate to, who’s been through some heart breaks etc, unfortunately she has 2 kids so baby daddy is still involved heavily, my brother being the kind, caring person he is, took them on and loved having them as part of his life.
After a few months of dating she told my brother that her ex had beaten her etc and he believed her.
A few more months passes by and he starts to notice little things about her, that are kinda controlling, you know, like telling him he can’t go to his works Xmas do, but he goes anyway coz you know, he wants to go, so she dumps him on the spot, but this is like the 5th time in the space of a few months that she’s dumped him for stupid reasons.
anyway, he seems better off for a month, but they get back together and he moves in with her, where she tells him that it’s like looking after another child and calls him fat and lazy (even though she’s not much better herself) so they break up again. And again and again
Until the last time at the end of March where she told him to drop dead and never speak to her again.
Me and my mum think thank fuck he’s finally gonna not get back with her. Ever. Again.
However, About 30m ago I text him to ask about details of his birthday get together that his having just for the lads as Dan (my partner) has been invited. Only to be confronted with abit of sass, which is super unusual for my normally very chill brother. Anyway, so we carry on texting and I ask where he is as mum has told me that he’s staying at a friends, but I’d had suspicions at this point that he was actually at Taras. Turns out I was right, howeve we were texting and arguing over it, it doesn’t actually feel like I’m talking to my brother. I show dan the texts and say this doesn’t seem like my brother, he agrees, I screen shot the conversation and send it to my mum, who immediately says “thats not Rhys” I mean wtf! Who does that! My mum is now worried that sues physically hurt him. I mean he’s not a small guy and he’s not weak, but he’s an absolutely c*#%. I literally cannot stand her. She blocked me before she could even get to know me which tells me she’s scared of me, although I’m not exactly someone to be scared of, but if she hurts him I’m gonna hurt her wtf do I do people?! Really worried now
After a few months of dating she told my brother that her ex had beaten her etc and he believed her.
A few more months passes by and he starts to notice little things about her, that are kinda controlling, you know, like telling him he can’t go to his works Xmas do, but he goes anyway coz you know, he wants to go, so she dumps him on the spot, but this is like the 5th time in the space of a few months that she’s dumped him for stupid reasons.
anyway, he seems better off for a month, but they get back together and he moves in with her, where she tells him that it’s like looking after another child and calls him fat and lazy (even though she’s not much better herself) so they break up again. And again and again
Until the last time at the end of March where she told him to drop dead and never speak to her again.
Me and my mum think thank fuck he’s finally gonna not get back with her. Ever. Again.
However, About 30m ago I text him to ask about details of his birthday get together that his having just for the lads as Dan (my partner) has been invited. Only to be confronted with abit of sass, which is super unusual for my normally very chill brother. Anyway, so we carry on texting and I ask where he is as mum has told me that he’s staying at a friends, but I’d had suspicions at this point that he was actually at Taras. Turns out I was right, howeve we were texting and arguing over it, it doesn’t actually feel like I’m talking to my brother. I show dan the texts and say this doesn’t seem like my brother, he agrees, I screen shot the conversation and send it to my mum, who immediately says “thats not Rhys” I mean wtf! Who does that! My mum is now worried that sues physically hurt him. I mean he’s not a small guy and he’s not weak, but he’s an absolutely c*#%. I literally cannot stand her. She blocked me before she could even get to know me which tells me she’s scared of me, although I’m not exactly someone to be scared of, but if she hurts him I’m gonna hurt her wtf do I do people?! Really worried now