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Suggestions for Better Sleep



Hey ppl i didnt no where to post this so put it here cos it seems to have loads of random stuff here...if its in the wrong place u can move it.

Ok wel wen i talk to alot of ppl in chat they say they cant sleep (insomnia) so i just thort i'd post this list of suggestions that i was given by a friend of mine. Hope they help sum of ya:

1) Sleep is as important as food and air. Quantity and quality are very important. Most adults need between 7.5 to 8.5 hours of uninterrupted sleep. If you press the snooze button on the alarm in the morning you are not getting enough sleep. This could be due to not enough time in bed, external disturbances, or a sleep disorder.
2) Keep regular hours. Try to go to bed at the same time and get up at the same time every day. Getting up at the same time is most important. Getting bright light, like the sun, when you get up will also help. Try to go to bed only when you are sleepy. Bright light in the morning at a regular time should help you feel sleepy at the same time every night.
3) Stay away from stimulants like caffeine. This will help you get deep sleep which is most refreshing. If you take any caffeine, take it in the morning. Avoid all stimulants in the evening, including chocolate, caffeinated sodas, and caffeinated teas. They will delay sleep and increase arousals during the night.
4) Use the bed for sleeping. Avoid watching TV or using laptop computers. Know that reading in bed can be a problem if the material is very stimulation and you read with a bright light. If it helps to read before sleep make sure you use a very small wattage bulb to read. A 15 watt bulb should be enough. Bright light from these activities may inhibit sleep.
5) Avoid bright light around the house before bed. Using dimmer switches in living rooms and bathrooms before bed can be helpful. (Dimmer switches can be set to maximum brightness for morning routines.)
6) on't stress if you feel you are not getting enough sleep. It will just make matters worse. Know you will sleep eventually.
7) Avoid exercise near bedtime. No exercise at least 3 hours before bed.
8) Don't go to bed hungry. Have a light snack, avoid a heavy meal before bed.
8) Bedtime routines are helpful for good sleep. Keep routines on your normal schedule. A cup of herbal tea an hour before bed can begin a routine.
9) Avoid looking at the clock if you wake up in the middle of the night. It can cause anxiety. This is very difficult for most of us, so turn the clock away from your eyes so you would have to turn it to see the time. You may decide not to make the effort and go right back to sleep.
10) If you can't get to sleep for over 30 minutes, get out of bed and do something boring in dim light till you are sleepy.
11) Keep your bedroom at comfortable temperature. Not too warm and not too cold. Cooler is better than warmer.

Hope this helps a bit,
sweet dreams

lost soul

sleeping well

We don't usually need to think very much about our sleep - it's just a part of life that we take for granted. When we can't sleep, though, it can be a real problem. In fact, most of us will find it hard to sleep at some point in our lives. We have a word for it - insomnia. It's often just for a short time, perhaps when we're worried or excited. After a few days, things settle down and we get back to sleeping normally. However, we need sleep to keep our minds and bodies healthy. If we carry on sleeping badly, we start to notice the effects.

What is sleep?
Sleep is the regular period in every 24 hours when we are unconscious and unaware of our surroundings. There are two main types of sleep:
Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep
It comes and goes throughout the night, and makes up about one fifth of our sleep time. During REM sleep, our brain is very active, our muscles are very relaxed, our eyes move quickly from side to side and we dream.
Non-REM sleep
The brain is quiet, but the body may move around. Hormones are released into the bloodstream and our body repairs itself after the wear and tear of the day. There are 4 stages of non-REM sleep:

The muscles relax, the heart beats slower and body temperature falls - "pre-sleep".
Light sleep - we can still be woken easily without feeling confused.
"Slow wave" sleep - our blood pressure falls, we may talk in our sleep or sleep walk.
Deep "slow wave" sleep - we become very hard to wake. If we are woken, we feel confused.
We move between REM and non-REM sleep about five times throughout the night, dreaming more as we get toward the morning.

During a normal night, we will also have short periods of waking. These last 1 or 2 minutes and happen every 2 hours or so. We aren't usually aware of them. We are more likely to remember them if we feel anxious or there is something else going on - noises outside, our partner snoring etc.

How much sleep do we need?
This depends mainly on how old we are.
Babies sleep for about 17 hours each day.
Older children only need 9 or 10 hours a night.
Most adults need around 7-8 hours sleep each night.
Older people need the same amount of sleep, but will often only have one period of deep sleep during the night, usually in the first 3 or 4 hours, after which they wake more easily. We also tend to dream less as we get older.

There are also differences between people of the same age. Most of us need 7-8 hours a night, but some (a few) people can get by with only 3 hours a night. It's not helpful to regularly sleep more than 7-8 hours each night.

The short periods of being awake feel much longer than they really are. So it's easy to feel that we are not sleeping as much as we actually are.

What if I don't sleep?
It's easy to worry when you can't sleep. The occasional night without sleep will make you feel tired the next day, but it won't harm your physical or mental health.

However, after several sleepless nights, you will start to find that:

you are tired all the time
you drop off during the day
you find it difficult to concentrate
you find it hard to make decisions
you start to feel depressed.
This can be very dangerous if you are driving or operating heavy machinery. Many deaths are caused each year by people falling asleep at the wheel while driving.
Lack of sleep may also make us more vulnerable to high blood pressure, obesity and diabetes.

Sleep problems in adult life

Sleeping too little (Insomnia)
You may feel that you aren't getting enough sleep or that, even if you do get the hours, you don't get a good night's rest.

There are many everyday reasons for not sleeping well:

the bedroom may be too noisy, too hot or too cold
the bed may be uncomfortable or too small
you partner may have a different pattern of sleep from yourself
you may not have a regular routine, or may not be getting enough exercise
eating too much can make it difficult to get off to sleep
going to bed hungry can make you wake too early
cigarettes, alcohol and drinks containing caffeine, such as tea and coffee
illness, pain or a high temperature.

Some more serious causes include:
emotional problems
difficulties at work
anxiety and worry
depression - you may wake very early in the morning and not be able to get back to sleep
thinking over and over about day to day problems.

Can medication help?
People have used sleeping tablets for many years, but we now know that they:
don't work for very long.
Leave you tired and irritable the next day.
lose their effect quite quickly, so you have to take more and more to get the same effect.
some people become addicted to them. The longer you take sleeping tablets, the more likely you are to become physically or psychologically dependent on them.
there are some newer sleeping tablets (Zolpidem, Zalpelon and Zopiclone), but these seem to have many of the same drawbacks as the older drugs, such as Nitrazepam, Temazepam and Diazepam.

Sleeping tablets should only be used for short periods (less than 2 weeks) - for instance if you are so distressed that you cannot sleep at all.

If you have been on sleeping tablets for a long time, it is best to cut down the dose slowly after discussing it with your doctor.

In some cases, antidepressant tablets may be helpful.

Over the counter medication
You can buy several remedies at your chemist, without the need for a prescription. These products will often contain an anti-histamine, like you find in medicines for hay-fever, coughs and colds. These do work but they can make you sleepy well into the next morning. If you do use them, take the warnings seriously and don't drive or operate heavy machinery the next day. Another problem is tolerance - as your body gets used to the substance, you need to take more and more to get the same effect. It is best not to take anti-histamines for a long time.

Herbal alternatives are usually based on a herb called Valerian. It probably works best if you take it nightly for 2-3 weeks or more. It doesn't seem to work so well if you take it occasionally. As with the anti-histamines, you need to be careful about the effects lasting into the following morning. If you are taking any medication for your blood pressure (or any other sleeping tablets or tranquillisers), have a chat with your doctor before using an over the counter remedy.

Psychological Treatments
A technique called cognitive behavioural therapy has been shown to be helpful. It involves looking at unhelpful ways of thinking that can make you more anxious, and so interfere with your sleep.
Things to avoid
Alcohol. Everybody knows that alcohol can help you to fall asleep. The problem is that you will usually wake up half-way through the night. If you drink alcohol regularly to help you sleep, you will find that you need to drink more and more to get the same effect. If you drink regularly and you stop drinking suddenly, you may find it hard to sleep for a week or two.
Slimming tablets make it hard to sleep, as do street drugs like Ecstasy, cocaine and amphetamines.
Helping yourself
Here are some simple tips that many people have found helpful.

Make sure that your bed and bedroom are comfortable - not too hot, not too cold, not too noisy.
Make sure that your mattress supports you properly. It should not be so firm that your hips and shoulders are under pressure or so soft that your body sags. Generally, you should replace your mattress every 10 years to get the best support and comfort.
Get some exercise. Don't overdo it, but try some regular swimming or walking. The best time to exercise is in the daytime - particularly late afternoon or early evening. Exercising later than this may disturb your sleep.
Take some time to relax properly before going to bed. Some people find aromatherapy helpful.
If something is troubling you, and there is nothing you can do about it right away, try writing it down before going to bed and then tell yourself to deal with it tomorrow.
If you can't sleep, get up and do something you find relaxing. Read, watch television or listen to quiet music. After a while you should feel tired enough to go to bed again.

Don't go without sleep for a long time - go to bed when you are tired and stick to a routine of getting up at the same time every day, whether you still feel tired or not.
Caffeine hangs around in your body for many hours after your last drink of tea or coffee. Stop drinking tea or coffee by mid-afternoon. If you want a hot drink in the evening, try something milky or herbal (but check there's no caffeine in it).
Don't drink a lot of alcohol. It may help you fall asleep, but you will almost certainly wake up during the night.
Don't eat or drink a lot late at night. Try to have your supper early in the evening rather than late.
If you've had a bad night, don't sleep in the next day - it will make it harder to get off to sleep the following night.

If you try these tips and you still can't sleep, go and see your doctor. You can talk over any problems that may be stopping you from sleeping. Your doctor can make sure that your sleeplessness is not being caused by a physical illness, a prescribed medicine, or emotional problems. There is some evidence that cognitive behavioural therapy (see above), can be helpful if your sleeplessness has gone on for a long time.

Sleeping at the wrong time - Shift Work and Parenthood
You may have to work at night and to stay awake when you would normally be asleep. If you only have to do this from time to time, it's quite easy to adjust. It is much more difficult if you have to do this more often. Shift workers, doctors and nurses working all night, or nursing mothers may all have this problem. They find themselves sleeping at times when they ought to be awake. This is similar to jet lag, where rapid travel between time zones means that you find yourself awake when everybody else is asleep.

A good way to get back to normal is to make sure that you wake up quite early, at the same time every morning. It doesn't matter how late you fell asleep the night before. Use an alarm clock to help you. Make sure that you don't go to bed again before about 10 pm that night. If you do this for a few nights, you should soon start to fall asleep naturally at the right time.

Sleeping too much
You may find that you often fall asleep during the day at times when you want to stay awake. The commonest reason is not getting enough sleep at night.

However, you may find that you are still falling asleep in the daytime even after a week or two of getting enough sleep at night. Sometimes, a physical illness can be responsible - diabetes, a viral infection, or a thyroid problem.

There are other conditions which make people sleep too much:
Narcolepsy (Daytime sleepiness)
This is uncommon condition that has often not been recognised by doctors.

There are two main symptoms:
you feel sleepy in the daytime, with sudden uncontrollable attacks of sleepiness even when you are with other people
you suddenly lose control of your muscles and collapse when you are angry, laughing or excited - this is called cataplexy.

You may also find that you:
can't speak or move when falling asleep or waking up - (Sleep Paralysis)
hear odd sounds or see dream-like images (Hallucinations)
"run on auto-pilot" - you have done things, but can't remember doing them, as if you had been asleep
wake with hot flushes during the night.

The cause for this has recently been found - a lack of a substance called orexin, or hypocretin.
Treatment consists of taking regular exercise and having a regular night time routine. Depending on the pattern of your symptoms, medication may be helpful - an antidepressant or a drug which increases wakefulness, such as Modafinil.

Sleep Apnoea (Interrupted Sleep)
You snore loudly and stop breathing for short periods during the night. This happens because the upper part of your airway closes.
Every time you stop breathing, you wake suddenly and your body or arms and legs may jerk.
You are awake just for a short time before falling off to sleep again.
This often happens several times during the night. So, you feel tired the next day, often with an irresistible urge to go to sleep. You may also have a dry mouth and a headache when you wake up in the morning.

It is more common in:
older people
the overweight
those who drink a lot of alcohol.
Sometimes, the problem is noticed more by their partner than by the sufferer. Treatment usually involves correcting the parts of your lifestyle that may be making the problem worse - cutting down smoking and drinking, losing weight, and sleeping in a different position. If your apnoea is very bad, it may be necessary to wear a Continuous Positive Airway Pressure (CPAP) mask. This fits over your nose and supplies high pressure air to keep your airway open.

Other problems with sleeping
At some point in their life, about 1 in 20 adults have night terrors, and 1 in 100 report that they sleep-walk. Both these conditions are more common in children.
If you sleepwalk, you will appear (to other people) to wake from a deep sleep. You will then get up and do things. These may be quite complicated, like walking around or going up and down stairs. This can land you in embarrassing (and occasionally dangerous) situations. Unless someone else wakes you up, you will remember nothing about it the next day. Sleepwalking may sometimes happen after a night terror (see below).

A sleepwalker should be guided gently back to bed and should not be woken up. It may be necessary to take precautions to protect them or others from injury. You may need to lock doors and windows, or lock away sharp objects, like knives and tools.

Night terrors can occur on their own, without leading to sleepwalking. Like a sleepwalker, a person with night terrors will appear to wake suddenly from a deep sleep. They look half-awake and very frightened, but will usually settle back down to sleep without waking up completely. All you can do is sit with them until they fall asleep again.

Night terrors are different from vivid dreams or nightmares as people don't seem to remember anything about them the next morning.

NightmaresMost of us have had frightening dreams or nightmares. They usually happen during the later part of the night, when we have our most vivid and memorable dreams. They do not normally cause problems unless they happen regularly, usually because of an emotional upset. Nightmares often follow a distressing or life-threatening event, such as a death, a disaster, an accident or a violent attack. Counselling may be helpful.

lost soul

Re: sleeping well continued

Restless Legs Syndrome (RLS)
You feel you have to move your legs (but also, sometimes, other parts of the body ).
You may have uncomfortable painful or burning feelings in your legs.
These feelings only bother you when you are resting.
They are generally worse at night.
They are relieved by movement, such as walking or stretching, for as long as you carry on doing it.
You may not be able to sit still in the daytime, making it difficult to work, and may be unable to sleep properly.

Sufferers usually first seek help in middle age, although they may have had symptoms since childhood. It seems to run in families.

RLS usually occurs on its own. It can occasionally be caused by a physical illness, such as iron and vitamin deficiencies, diabetes or kidney problems. It can also happen in pregnancy.

If it is not caused by another physical illness, treatment depends on how bad it is. In mild RLS, the symptoms can usually be controlled by simple steps designed to help you sleep better (see section on 'Helping Yourself').

In more severe RLS, medications may help. These include medications used in Parkinson's disease, anti-epileptic medications, benzodiazepine tranquillisers and painkillers.

If simple measures do not help, you can be referred to a sleep or movement disorders specialist.
Some people with autism do not seem to realise that night time is for sleeping, and may be up and about when everyone else wants to sleep. This will usually need the help of a specialist.
I take 5-10mg of Melatonin nightly. It helps me feel drowsy and fall asleep even with racing thoughts. And I can take it more than once per sleep cycle (as long as I have at least 4 hours of sleep time before I have to wake up).


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