I met a girl online, and we soon grew close. She was married young, had a husband in the military, moved to Germany, but had divorced years ago. Finally we got close enough to the point where she moved back to the United States and lived with her parents in Virginia while getting back on her feet. I live in South Carolina, and we had met on on a couple of occasions. She had recently gone back to finish up her college degree and had one year left, after which we planned on moving in together (I currently own a condo). A couple of weeks ago I found out that she was pregnant. Not only was she pregnant, but she had just had the baby and never told me either of these things. I feel so crushed and have no idea what to do. Obviously things are over between us. Being 33, I feel as if my time is running out in the dating scene as far as being able to have a wife and children go. She's 28, and I encourage her to marry the father of her baby (I'm traditional like that). I just feel so disappointed, and can't seem to get over it. I thought she was the perfect girl for me. She had all of my interests and was very beautiful. It sucks so bad, and I never knew what I had until I lost her. I recently lost both grandparents on my mom's side of the family, so I see what death does, and suicide is no option for me. I will embrace any advice anyone has out there though. I just don't know what to do. Obviously I can't weep over it for the rest of my life and need to move on.