Suicide not the answer? Why not?

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by darkrider, Feb 18, 2009.

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  1. darkrider

    darkrider Well-Known Member

    I am curious as to why everybody seems to say that suicide is not the answer.

    Let me juxtapose committing suicide and not committing suicide.

    Committing suicide pros:
    -A final end to my miserable life, with it's sole purpose of tying me down and having it wave at me as it passes me by. Day after day.
    -A final end to my miserable mental state. An ineffable state of emotionless uncaring, and yet at the same time, roller coaster swings from high to low, with each swing going less and less high, and more and more low.
    -A final end to the knowledge that I will never, ever, experience the embrace of a woman; that I will never form any kind of relationship, and will remain a virgin to the very day of my natural death.
    -A final end to my addiction to the internet and masturbation. Masturbation is the one thing that temporarily suppresses my sex drive; however, the amount of time it is suppressed is rapidly decreasing with each successive masturbation, and the brief feeling of semi-pleasure it causes is doing likewise.
    -A final end to myself being tormented each and every day, seeing guy after guy make smalltalk and have fun with girl after girl, while knowing this will never be myself. Whoever is controlling my life wanted to make it clear to me that I am less than a fraction of a human being, living in a couples world.
    -A final end to the knowledge that I would not be here right now had mankind not halted the progression of natural selection.
    -The earth is severely overpopulated with humans.

    Committing suicide cons:
    -May cause temporary pain to the small amount of family members that care about me. But then again, it would end my parasitic attachment to them and, of course, I would not be around to feel bad about it.

    Not committing suicide pros:
    -Supposedly the "right" answer
    -No pain caused to the ones that care about me (but they must realize I am but a leech)

    Not committing suicide cons:
    -Everything that suicide would solve will worsen, and more issues will develop with each grain of life that falls through the hour glass.
    -I am a waste of flesh and bone.

    Given this information, I have come to the conclusion that the people who say suicide is not the answer are quite simply and flatly wrong. With this I do depart.
     
  2. HOW

    HOW Well-Known Member

    To be it still is an answer, as it does end all of my problems. However, I do understand the viewpoint of those who say it is not an answer as it doesn't solve your problems but you run away from them. The pain of losing someone is the worse pain imaginable and imposing such pain one the ones you know is simply wrong. Especially if they are not aware of your mental problems.

    Life is what you make of it, you can change and you can make a difference in the world. So each day is an opportunity to reach your goals.
     
  3. darkrider

    darkrider Well-Known Member

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