I was reading on another forum about how a guy took his life after being rejected by a girl. most of the forum was pretty insensitive towards his pain. i don't think he killed himself because some girl didn't like him so much it was the feeling of worthlessness that he may have felt over it. I know what it's like to get rejected and while i felt hurt by it, i was more hurt by the way she went about it. her words made me question what kind of person and man i was. i listened to her talk about other guys she dated and despite the fact they kind of sounded like jerks she accepted them for who they were. her rejection made me question what was wrong with me that was so bad...i didn't force myself on her nor did i come on too strong. yet it was like i was both overbearing, (which i still don't fully understand why which is frustrating,) and i was also weak and didn't have "balls" over two years later it still hurts and that's why when i see people make light of someone's pain over rejection it makes me so angry how insensitive and thoughtless people are. sorry for the rant.