Suicide vs. Living

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Kraven, May 11, 2008.

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  1. Kraven

    Kraven Member

    Heres the list:

    FOR Suicide:

    1) My parents will save on alot of bucks. What with no college and other expenses on my side.

    2) I won't have to go thru life alone, like I am right now.

    3) I won't have to worry about if I fail or not.

    4) I will never need to be sad or cry or feel miserable, like I do now.

    5) I will never feel like I have no way out.


    FOR Living:

    1) -

    2) -

    3) -

    4) -

    5) -


    See that? I got NOTHING for living. And even IF I do come up with reasons to live the reasons to die outweigh them.
     
  2. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    FOR Living:

    1) Sunshine

    2) Bird Songs

    3) Children's laughter

    4) Friends

    5) All the good things you'll never experience if you're not here

    6) Save people from the pain of loosing you

    7) Music

    8) Ice cream

    9) Chocolate

    10) You never know what might happen....

    See :smile:
     
  3. Kraven

    Kraven Member


    See? :sad:
     
  4. Ruby

    Ruby Well-Known Member

    ^ lol

    For suicide -
    1) Life is shit and will never get better
    2).. I know that because i've been told that i'm treatment resistant
    3) I want to be able to choose when I die, not have something else kill me
    4) I'd rather jump off beachyhead then die of cancer/heart attack/whatever other disease i'll develop
    5) I have no real reason to live
    6) I can't trust people so i'm not really suited to life
    7) Life is tedious
    8) People would be better off without me
    9) I hate having to take psychotropic drugs. If i'm dead, I won't have to
    10) There's no hope for me
    11).. If I didn't kill myself I'd end up going mad and being sent to a psychiatric hospital
    12) I'm beyond help
     
  5. Kraven

    Kraven Member

    ^ I could add a majority of those to my list too..
     
  6. xenflyz

    xenflyz Member

    Those all work for me too.
    I never had a friend in my life and due to autism I probably wont.
    It's like living in an isolated hell. Hopefully I'll end my misery soon.
     
  7. perry_mason

    perry_mason Well-Known Member

    come on everybody, between us all we must be able to get some good reasons for living.

    (although to be honest, i cant think of any myself).
     
  8. pit

    pit Well-Known Member

    Reasons for Living:

    0

    Reasons for Dying:

    Hannah Montana
     
  9. *dilligaf*

    *dilligaf* Staff Alumni

    I came up with 10, and could find many more if I needed to.

    We ALL could, we just need to look past all the shittyness
     
  10. Kraven

    Kraven Member

    Wow, that just made my day!

    Thank you!
     
  11. pit

    pit Well-Known Member

    No prob!:rolleyes:
     
  12. Ruby

    Ruby Well-Known Member

    I'm try to be the optimist

    Reasons to live -
    1) My family
    2) My two dogs
    3) Sitting in the garden in the summer
    4) Music
    5) The uncertainty of what happens after a person commits suicide

    Can't think of any more atm
     
  13. ThoseEmptyWalls

    ThoseEmptyWalls Well-Known Member

    Reasons to die:
    1. I hate the medications the doctors put me on and Im going to be put back on them soon. If I were dead I wouldnt have to take them.
    2.I wouldnt have to hear my family nag me and push it up in my face that Im a total failure.
    3.I wouldnt have to feel the pain of the failure that I feel because I cant fix my marriage.
    4.There would be no more need to feel like a jackass when Im talking to therapists and doctors.
    5.I couldnt embarasse myself or screw up by calling hotlines or local crisis centers just to vent.
    6.I wouldnt have to change diapers, clean spit up off my carpet, or dog pee off the tiles.
    7.No for fighting with those I love..
    Im sure I could think of more but thats it for now..

    Reason to live:
    1.Even though I hate changing diapers and cleaning up puke I love my son and wouldnt want him to be without me if I could controll it and keep it from happening.
    2.Even though I hate cleaning up doggie pee I know its not her fault as shes got a bladder problem and I love her anyways. I wouldnt want someone mistreating her if my husband didnt keep her after I was gone. Same for my other dog and my cat.
    3.I would hate to put my family thru emotional hell causes because I died and if I can keep that from happening Im going to try my best to do just that, keep it from happening.

    I could say things like: ice cream, diet soda, chocolate, watermelon, music, scary movies, ect. But if I were dead I wouldnt have a need for them and I wouldnt even know I was missing them so...
     
  14. Smashed__

    Smashed__ Well-Known Member

    wait, so you don't give ashit if your family goes through a great deal of pain and is never the same but you care about the money they spend on you?? Money comes and goes, and when you are dead they will be forking out $$$$ to take care of your body. I don't know what your beliefs or families beliefs are but they are all costly. I am pro-choice so don't take me as barking out an anti-suicide rant, I just can't understand your logic here.

    Most of my reasons for living are mythoughts of "What happens after".

    For living:
    - My ferrets, mainly my oldest who I know would need me.
    - My dogs.
    - The rescue work i'm involved in, knowing I help somewhere in my life.
    - Knowing my family has been through hell, and I'd hurt them all.
    - Knowing my family does love me, and knowing they'd blame themselves.
    - Thnking about who would find my body.
    - the fear of attempting suicide, failing, and having to live an even worse life.
    - Wondering if a life of friends, fun, love, and happiness could be in my future.
    - fear of my next life.
    - relates to the last one: I've been through cancer and it was easier than depression. I also wonder if it will return and I can simply take no action and die.

    For dieing:
    - I've been depressed for almost eight years (i'm eighteen).
    - I've NEVER had any friends, never offline.
    - I'm unhappy with myself and aside from my humor and sarcastic nature don't like anything else.
    - I still have the fear I will be left again, once my mother can't take anymore(she promises otherwise).
    - Wanting to "start over", in a new life.
    - knowing I'll never be "okay".
    - I'm still bitter hurting and after nearly eight years and don't see it changing.
    - I don't want to go completly mad or have someone say I am and lock me up.

    I have to sign off as my sister is right next to me but i'm sure i'll add more. :rolleyes:
     
  15. L.O.L.
     
  16. bleach

    bleach Well-Known Member

    Reasons to live:
    -Scared of dying
    -haven't tried everything. might as well wait 'til I hit rock bottom before I do it. even if i don't really believe anything good is going to happen.
     
  17. touglytobeloved

    touglytobeloved Well-Known Member

    For Suicide:

    01. I have lost my friends, the few I was having
    02. Im 24/7 sad and depressed
    03. I have never felt loved by someone exept my family
    04. I have never had a girlfriend and Im 25 years old
    05. I will never be loved
    06. I will never get a girlfriend
    07. Im ugly
    08. Im sick
    09. I will never look better
    10. My health will never get better, and its even worse from day to day
    11. New problems every day
    12. No good thing in the last couple of years
    13. Im tired
    14. All i need in my life is love, and there is no way to find this
    15. Im in love in a girl that doesnt care about me
    16. Its so hard to keep all this pain and sorrow inside
    17. Ill go mad in a few years if Im still alive
    18. ................(ill add if i remember something else)
    19. Im alone, completely
    20. I will die alone anyway, sooner or later
    21. Im not interested in anything


    For Living:

    01. I dont want to hurt my family
    02. Im afraid of failure (and to be judged, or put in a mental institution or have a worse live after failure)
    03. I dont have a sure method and the things I need to try
    04. I know I will see her tomorow, even only as a friend (but she is leaving, so this reason will be gone soon)
     
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  18. Aleth

    Aleth Well-Known Member

    To live :
    Dreaming of miracles.

    To die :
    I don't believe in miracles, even if a part of me wants to.
     
  19. janie

    janie Well-Known Member

    why do u feel miserable? im curious:huh:
     
  20. touglytobeloved

    touglytobeloved Well-Known Member

    Exactly. Me to. So, its like my life is a dream, and when I die, Ill wake up.
     
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