A size 14 is not fat at all! Women look much better with curves and I hate how the modelling industry and the media has made people think that the skinnier a person is, the better. Deep down men want women with curves because it's a subconcious thing. Hips for procreation, etc.
I used to be really thin and then a had a child and gained a bunch of weight. It's when I am feeling down on myself and have no confidence that men don't notice me. No matter what size I have been. When I am feeling great about myself (size 12, 10, 8..I fluctuate like mad, even when I was a 4 pre-preg) I get noticed but if not, no one bothers to look.
What you boss is doing really pisses me off. That is so inappropriate for workplace behaviour. Can you file a compliant of sorts?
As for the people on FB, people say these things because they feel bad about themselves and need to make themselves feel better. Plain and simple. They laugh at others because it's easier than taking a good long and hard look at themselves and what is wrong with them. I would not become their friend. In fact, I have deleted people like this off my FB and out of my real life as well, and I am finding life much more enjoyable without the negativity.
:hug:
Keep up the good work!
I have tried the not eating bit and it's true..you just gain it back like mad after. :/
I used to be really thin and then a had a child and gained a bunch of weight. It's when I am feeling down on myself and have no confidence that men don't notice me. No matter what size I have been. When I am feeling great about myself (size 12, 10, 8..I fluctuate like mad, even when I was a 4 pre-preg) I get noticed but if not, no one bothers to look.
What you boss is doing really pisses me off. That is so inappropriate for workplace behaviour. Can you file a compliant of sorts?
As for the people on FB, people say these things because they feel bad about themselves and need to make themselves feel better. Plain and simple. They laugh at others because it's easier than taking a good long and hard look at themselves and what is wrong with them. I would not become their friend. In fact, I have deleted people like this off my FB and out of my real life as well, and I am finding life much more enjoyable without the negativity.
:hug:
Keep up the good work!
I have tried the not eating bit and it's true..you just gain it back like mad after. :/