The dumbest shit I've ever heard!

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by falling_away, Apr 23, 2008.

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  1. falling_away

    falling_away Member

    Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me a while back and she never really told me why. I e-mailed her and asked her why and this is actually what she wrote back:

    "well i still am not sure why i totally broke up with you i think that we had to much in common, and i think that you were to safe for me. i seek thrills and crazy thing in life. i like to hang with people that do things that shock others. i idk, i need to be with someone thats crazy and has amazing crazy stories about this one time that they got drunk and so on and so forth. i realized that that was the kinda of person that i want to be with. "

    Please tell me that I'm not the only person that thinks that what she said is completely illogical and makes no damn sense! How can having a lot in common with your girlfriend be something bad? Besides, I am a pretty crazy person and any of the few friends that I have would attest to that. I guess I just wasn't "crazy" enough for her! I feel like writing back to her and telling her exactly how I feel, which is basically that her message is nonesense and her and her entire family are nothing but a bunch of stupid backwoods hillbillies!

    What do you guys think? I feel as though this is just another nail in my coffin, just another thing that is pushing me a bit closer to the edge of the cliff that I'm on...
     
  2. HOW

    HOW Well-Known Member

    I wouldn´t care what she thinks and would forget about her. It might make you feel better if you do send her the email saying what you feel but that´s up to you :p
     
  3. LastCrusade

    LastCrusade Well-Known Member

    if thats the kind of life she wants to choose for herself, then perhaps it's good that u walk separate ways.
     
  4. Undone

    Undone Active Member

    falling_away,

    Breakups are tough, no matter the circumstances. She makes it sound like you weren't right for her; but it sounds more like she wasn't right for you. I'm glad you recognize that what she said makes no damn sense, it makes sense to her maybe, but the kind of relationship she is seeking will never sustain her in the long run. We all craze excitement, but "crazy & amazing" things as she puts it does not have to equal childish drunken incidents. I'm guessing you guys are still young, she sounds extremely immature, you are better off without such an influence in your life. There is someone else out there who you will have things in common with, and she will like you for you.
    Please give it time.
     
  5. jessikah2k8

    jessikah2k8 Well-Known Member

    Someone broke up with me because "I was too clingy". I didn't ask him to come out once.. he did.

    The next day, he had another girl on his arm.. and then I was like, Ah....right now I know.
     
  6. Lead Savior

    Lead Savior Well-Known Member

    Yeah that girl sounds pretty fucking stupid. Seems she still wants the nightly party life, not a meaningful relationship.
     
  7. jessikah2k8

    jessikah2k8 Well-Known Member

    Just forget about her.. there's plenty of nice girls out there.
     
  8. falling_away

    falling_away Member

    Thanks for your replies everyone. They make me feel better and they make a lot more sense than what she said! I think I'm just going to tell her how I truly feel about her and if that upsets her then so be it.
     
  9. A_Loser

    A_Loser Well-Known Member

    That is just another sign that this world went to hell.

    Most of the girls are like that these days (liking bad boys, seeking thrills) ... and because of that, most guys are behaving like stupid idiots. It's a fucking magic circle.

    I'll get flamed for this, but ... women = root of all evil :D

    As for your "girlfriend" ... move on, man .. she's not worth of trouble.
     
  10. jessikah2k8

    jessikah2k8 Well-Known Member

    Yeah.. she's not.

    Good luck, mate. And not all women are like that. I promise.
     
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