the meaning of life

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by mollycat, Jun 25, 2011.

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  1. mollycat

    mollycat Member

    It's been awhile since I have posted here. I am at a crossroad, fifty plus in a hotel room, a long way from home for six months.
    I want to kill shit.... WTF......
    How I GOT HERE and the down hill slide that brought me here is a long story.
    I have the means.
    Look at other humans and just seem to be a different species. Have no connection with anyone and no way to connect. Have tried in my own,, somewhat inane way but it never works.
    Death equals peace and relief from my torchered exististance.
    It's like I have lost my desire to live in this world, I am just a post note to the past and its time to go.
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Hi Mollycat know hun it hurts so badly i do let the tears come okay cry it out but there is help okay You go to hospital and get it okay tell them straight up you are going to end it if they don't help you hun. There you will have rest and have someone to talkto and get meds to help you YOu do deserve peace hun please call crisis line and get help you deserve hugs
  3. LoveBeing

    LoveBeing Well-Known Member

    Hi Mike,

    Please take a step back…

    I hear you…we humans can feel so disconnected/separated…like Eckhart Tolle said in his book “The Power of Now”:

    What is the meaning of life? Is death really equal to peace and relief?

    I’ve read some of your other posts. You mentioned that you believe in Jesus and God. So maybe we can say that our life is a gift from God? How do we treat the gift from God then? What is life? Who or what are we really? Maybe the meaning of our life experiences as human beings is to find out the answers? Just exploring with you…

    Is our peace dependent on things? Is it possible to feel peace beyond understanding?

    I don’t know if you are familiar with the book “A Course In Miracles”. Some feel or believe that it is a book channelled by Jesus. Here is a link to a free online website with the book (the text is a bit different from the hard copies) and related info:

    Maybe you will find the book speak to you…I understand that it has helped many people...

    Please hang in there!! hugs :hug:
  4. mollycat

    mollycat Member

    I can't go to a hospital. That would ruin my LAST Chance of getting the job that is the only reason I am still here.
    It's a long story about life, pain, and my inability to ever make the right choice.
    Have has given up on God and Jesus.. faith... has been broken.
    Thanks for the kind words and support. I know how many broken people there are here.
    I am just one more lost soul on the edge of oblivion.
    Funny I think that where I am and how I got here, is the meaning of life.
    Some in this life are winners and some are losers. Never thought of myself as a loser until just recently.
    Just sitting here and looking at thing that will take away the pain and wondering if I have the courage to leap to the other side.
    Will most likely wait and see how this job turns out. If it works great, if not then I am going back to my home in New England and kill myself there.
  5. LoveBeing

    LoveBeing Well-Known Member

    How do we define “winners” or “losers” if there are such things? Or are they just labels for the egos?

    Some so called “winners” may be still extremely unhappy while some “losers” can be very peaceful…

    Wish you well…
  6. mollycat

    mollycat Member

    hey, I don't know what the definition of a loser or winner really is.
    All I know is that at this time of my life...I sure don't feel very much like a winner.
    Sitting in a hotel hundreds of miles from home.With just one more last chance to get a new start. No girlfriend,ex-wife that is living in my old home.No friends, just this laptop.
    Actually I am lucky, still have enough money to "sit in a hotel" there are lots of people that are in the street.
    All I want is a chance to be happy again.Don't care about having money. Just someone to care for me and someone I can care for and love back.
    It's to much to ask for I guess.
  7. LoveBeing

    LoveBeing Well-Known Member

    Hi again Mike,

    It’s not too much to ask, but it takes time and patience…

    Maybe if you focus more on how to live, things will happen for you…

    With best wishes…
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