Hello Imagine working at a place and one of your female colleagues is Gay. At the same time, imagine being in a bad marriage. The gay girl becomes a real friend and you fall in love with her and let her know this. You respect the fact that she is gay and don't push things. Over three years, I have loved this girl so much. Two months ago, she cut a wrist and has been off on the sick since. then she stopped all contact with me . . . no texts . . . nothing. I then find out from someone else that she has gone into a serious relationship with the boss's friend who is a man. I've had three years of lies and I'm so hurt. I'm now on anti depressants and have felt sick for three weeks. Waiting list at doctors for councelling and I feel worse with every day. In my mind, I see her with this guy and it hurts so much.