I may be a little drunk, so this may be a bad idea for a thread. Why do we try so hard to find love? We put ourselves through so much in the persuit of love. We torture ourselves physically, emotionally, mentally, all to try and attract somebody. Now I may be saying this because I'm single, the girl I was interested in, and thought was interested in me is giving me a cold shoulder. But people always say theres someone for everyone, theres plenty more fish etc. So why put in the effort, if by fate, we will all get someone meant to be with us, without the effort, wont we? Of course not. I hate the fact I bust my ass to get a girlfriend, invest months into it, to have her turn around and crush me.. in 10 seconds.