I thought about posting this under the Uncertainty Principle, because it has to do with something I don't understand, some reaction that people often seem to have towards me that is beyond me. But, as it happens often, rather than pertaining to one incident, and it really has me flustered, I am posting it here. I am not a very extroverted person, so why is it that I call people much more often than they call me, and I get ignored unendingly from people who had spoken to me but never even gotten to know me well. I understand someone may be busy at times. Everyone is busy sometimes, or having a bad day when they just don't want to talk to anyone. But when I'm in a food court at my university, I look at all the people talking to each other in amazement, since I am almost always one of the people not talking. The same thing happens in classes, where people have friends. I have met people in classes, clubs, through roommates, but the friendships dissolve. I get ignored most of the time, and funny enough, if I don't get ignored I just feel uncomfortable with the person and don't go out of my way to try to make plans with them. But even the plans I do want to make with people evaporate. I feel like a tool- like the person who someone would agree to spend time with just so they can get away from me. Why else would people end up ignoring me? I went on a date recently, and the girl wouldn't talk to me afterwards. And like I said, most of the people who would talk to me I do not feel comfortable having more than a quick conversation with, for varying reasons. It's funny how that is. I was so angry when one girl didn't meet me at the library to study on my birthday, ignored my messages to her, then said she had lost her phone when I called the next day, and then didn't call me back after discussing other plans to meet at the library. I do not understand why people would ignore me. I would rather people tell me anything than ignore me. "I hate you because.." would be better than ignoring me. "I don't like anything about you- here is a list" would be fine, because then I'd know. But I am always left up in the air. Nobody actually says they don't like me, or they hate me, or anything. When people ignore me, it makes me angry and I started running to try to clear my mind. It helps, but I still have not met any people lately. :sigh: I don't see why I shouldn't have a lot of friends, because I have so many on here. Does anyone have any idea why this happens over and over again and what I can do about it? When I am ignored, it ties into feelings of everyone around me judging me negatively.