The term 'love' what's it mean? You can love someone and then you can be IN love In my opinion the term 'love' is used far too widely in general. Do people not stop to think how much love hurts? Imagine having someone say for months that they we're in love with you and just as you start to admit what feelings you have for them, falling in love with them they turn around and said that they don't think their in love with you, that would hurt pretty bad right? I mean do people never stop to think that it might hurt to hear that? Obviously not. It must be like having your heart ripped out. Imagine asking the person over and over again if their sure their in love with you and everytime they say yes and then have them turn round and say they don't, that would hurt right? What I'm trying to show is that people should really get their feelings straight before f*cking about with other peoples feelings. I was caught up in a situation on here where a girl told a guy she loved him, even told me she was falling in love with him and then turned round and said she didn't and was 'in love' with 2 other people ....... well actually one now but whatever. But I saw how low she made him feel and believe me its not nice and I comepletly understand what he was put thru, no wonder he felt like killing himself, I spent so many hours trying to get him back on track and now I have absolutely no contact with him and I'm really worried. You guys think its use too widely?? How would you feel if the above happened to you?