Most likely this will be closed as well, but I can't leave the question alone. It's all in my new sig, a song by Circle of Dust. Klayton said it best. The answer to Kanani's ?? is: The world is a hateful place, depending on how you were brought up. What you've been shown in your lifetime. Apparently more people have been shown to hate than I realized, or it would'nt be so common. If you can understand my sig-or the message behind it rather-then you'll have the answer. People are exposed to too much hatred & so they learn.