hello SF peeps again. I haven't posted here for foooookin ages. needless to say I'm still alive and well. I find there's still the usual gathering of complete mash heads, people prophesizing their own unique branch of ultimate faith and alchemists mastering their zen before they unleash it on the real world. Also the people who fail to co-exist with their own sexual identity, lol. you crack me up. morality is sooooo complicated. I started posting here because i was going through some cold times and people here really helped me out on a lot of occasions. I don't profess to be half as intelligent as people who post on here, i've been on some 'other' forums that have ultimately saved my life though. forums that aren't so serious. forums that provide escapism from my own secluded cold brain. I never really answered the questions that plagued my existence, i just found people that make life a breeze. my offer of debate in this post is small, it is this, and I'll leave this very open to criticism as to uphold the goodwill with which this post is intended; Is debating the particulars of life the way forward, or would accepting your imperfection and getting on with it be a more sensible approach?