I'm tired of being called cute. I've come to the conclusion that in the world of men, cute means something entirely different than it means to women. When men use "cute" there's always a "but" after it. Meaning "she's cute, but....(not hot, not sexy, not who I want her to be, not enough). I'm always called cute and I hate it. Additionally, I have only been with 2 guys, which is apparently a bad thing now. I was in a long term relationship for a long time so it wasn't like I was out looking. I had one guy literally break it off with me because "you're too cute, sweet and innocent, I would ruin you". WHO SAYS THAT??? I'm 22 years old and not a child! Gah....I can't escape this "cute" thing. It makes me want to scream. I've lost 60 lbs and I look healthy, why do I still fall into this category? The category that guys like to use me as a distraction but never to be taken seriously. I don't know what more I can do to change myself.... I know this is more of a rant than anything else but it drives me nuts.