Well, if it were me—& this is speaking strictly from a personal point of view—if any one of those reasons were the one, or ones (given or not), as to why she chose to walk away / call it off, etc. I would quite honestly thank her, say “goodbye!” And begin my search/quest for the next. It needs to be a good fit, between the two of you, or you’re just not going to be able to work together & accomplish things, or get things done (in my opinion). . .
Maybe she just wasn’t smart enough? You never know... not everyone graduates at the top of their class or is at a level within their chosen profession to be able to get through to some of the more challenging/difficult- whatever you want to call or label it clients (I would put myself into this category, but for entirely different reasons: for instance; I don’t see anybody getting intimidated by my intellect, but they may find me more trouble than I’m worth once I start trying to get inside their heads, and toy with them - or used to!
) I’ve matured — or mellowed, with age.
so I think if I haven’t already said it, she did you a favor and the last thing you’d want, I think, is to have a doctor in any discipline who’d rather not have you as their client / patient. I know it happens... I think it’s happening to me right now in another area, and it is (or can be) a very “powerless,” feeling. Anyway, the psych field is one of the last places I’d care to see this occur, due to the delicate nature (& power, by the way) of the mind. It is still a very mysterious thing - and we cannot, for instance, have a physiological test done in order to tell us that we’ve got schizophrenia, or what have you (meaning, at times, even in relation to the other “fields,” it truly is all, “guess with in a white coat!”
I always felt I’d gotten more out of 5 minutes with my psychiatrist, than I did 50 minutes with my psychologist. But maybe that’s because I respected him (& therefore- in part, greatly my fault). That said, some of them - the therapist s were true idiots, making me question the veracity/or voracity—see I’m so dumb I can’t even think of the right word! Let’s just say ‘authenticity,’ of their claims, via their degrees & credentials & c & c. :^)