a thread about something that's bothering me, but it's been closed. I don't want to stir up anything I just need to get this off my chest. Hopefully I won't offend anyone by saying what I need to get out, cos that's not something I want. I merely need to get this out because it's eating me inside, so to say. There's been a thread started by chuck norris that's been closed, about another forum being started by some members from here. I don't know about the whole 'bitching about sf' thing, as I'm apparently not around enough for that, and I do not wish to engage in any slagging of any sites, to be honest. As you may know, I'm a member both on here (doh) and on the other site. I liked both sites, would get support on both sites, and the other site was a bit 'smaller' so to say, less members, which at that time was something I 'needed' at the time I signed up there. Now, I feel lonely though. For some reason I feel like an outsider both on there AND on here now. Whenever I go onto the other site, I get a feeling I shouldn't be on there because I like SF, and whenever I'm on here I feel like I am not welcome on here because I'm a member on there. I'm not saying that necessarily is how it IS, but it's a FEELING I get, like a VIBE when I'm on either site. This leaves me feeling incredibly lonely and like I don't deserve support for some reason. I know that this may partly be cos of me being around way less cos I'm so busy these days, and also partly because of a 'situation' I had going on with someone who's also a member on both sites, but still.. All the 'bitching' as it's called, about that site on here, and about this site on there (although I haven't seen any bitching about SF on there or anything, but I do get the whole "we don't like SF" vibe on there, but again , that's just a feeling I get, which (as I explained before) is why I feel like I can't go on there for support) Same as I don't feel like I should be on here for support, because I get a feeling like I'm not welcome, merely for being a member on there. This results in me not being 'active' on either of the sites, leaving me supportless. What's my point in this post? I'm not sure. Maybe I want to hear others' thoughts on what could be the cause of me feeling like I can't go on either of the sites for support, just cos I'm a member at the other site as well. Maybe I just want comfirmation that I do deserve support. Maybe a little of both. Either way, I'm glad I got this off my chest. Maybe now it'll stop eating at me. Thanks for taking the time to read this (and who knows even reply), and once again; I do not mean to offend anyone or slag off any place/person/site. I'm merely stating my feelings, I hope that's okay.