i am a single mother with a 13 year old who is moody, mad, angry, hates the world, hates me, hates everything and everyone. some days of my life are happy ones, but it seems far and few inbetween, hes never happy he never wants to talk, if i try to get him to talk he gets mad, if i ask him a question he gets mad, when he wakes up, he is mad, he is mad when he gets home from school, if i ask him if he is hungry, he gets mad. i have been told that he might need medication, but if i ask him to go to the doctor to talk about it, he gets mad. i think maybe he needs meds but he says that only losers take medication, so i guess i am a loser. he was fine until he turned 12, now my life is crazy half of the time, i wish he could just be happy and i dont understand where he gets this because i am a happy person. we are both about 20 to 30 pounds overweight but i cant get him to exercise at all, forget it that is out of the question, i love to walk and exercise and i cant get him to even try. i go to the river where there is a long walkway for people and he just sits in the car sulking while i walk alone, he wont go to the mall because he does not like to walk, am i going to have to stay fat until he leaves when hes 18? some of this is my fault because i should just go alone, but when i come home from work i dont want to leave him here all by himself and i dont have family nearby to help supervise him. i used to exercise all the time, i dont know, maybe it is because i am depressed, i dont know.