You always here it: It's not about how good you look or how smart you are, etc and etc but about thinking positive and being confident. This may have some truth but it sure as hell ain't possible when your entire life is devoid of positives and every time you try to be confident you lose miserably at life again. There is not one freaking thing in my life to be happy about. And it's nearly impossible to have confidence when time after time after time you are shown how big a loser you are, how much you suck and how no one wants you around. So to all the people who are thinking of giving the advice to think positive or have confidence, just stay quiet and do something to give that person something positive or a reason to have some confidence.