Did you ever hurt someone (emotionally) without really meaning to? I was just thinking back to a relationship I had with probably the only girl who ever really loved me. It was way back in the 90s. We worked together and someone told me she liked me. I didn't have anything better to do so I asked her out and we started dating. At some point, I thought I loved her. I really did. But I'm a passionate person and sometimes I get caught up in the moment and I say things I regret. Then one day I realized I didn't love her and I didn't know what to do. She kept trying to get close to be and I kept running away because I didn't know how to tell her or what to say. So I ended up just moving away. I know I hurt her and I've felt bad about it ever since. The worst part is that like I said, she was probably the only female who ever really loved me in a romantic way. It could have never worked because I'm a loner at heart but I just wish I hadn't let her believe it could. I don't really know how strong her feelings were but I know how I felt the first time I got dumped. It's so crazy when I say I didn't mean to do it because I didn't and yet it felt like I had no choice.