i am seriously thinking of selling all my property and all jointly owned property and leaving my spouse. I have tried to talk to her about the depression and financial issues. The feeling is she does not care to talk about any of it. I feel the 14 years of marriage have been a joke. As long as I was working and paying the majority of all livings expenses it was fine. Now that I am unable to do so my wife's attitude towards me has changed. I feel the last few years I was viewed as just a paycheck.