This life as a 21 year old

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by darkrider, Nov 26, 2009.

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  1. darkrider

    darkrider Well-Known Member

    how do you cope when all you get up for are appointments, when you have no studies or a small job to go to and socialise.

    when its been weeks since you recieved a text from anyone asking how you are.

    when you log into messenger and there are no messages from anyone like there used to be.

    when you log onto facebook and you see people organising trips to clubs, gigs or venturing off somewhere.

    when the last time you went to a club was never and the last time you had friends at a birthday party was probably over a decade ago.

    when you feel so crippled by lonliness and depression that you simply cannot cope any more.

    i dont know why things are this way. im a normal person underneith it all. i dont understand where it all went wrong.

    i dont really know what im clinging onto any more?
     
  2. am I alive

    am I alive Well-Known Member

    i'd like to know those answers too...but i don't even think that i am a normal person...
     
  3. LittleSparkles13

    LittleSparkles13 Well-Known Member

    omg..felt like u were talking bout me

    here if you need to talk...am always online
     
  4. bubblin girl

    bubblin girl Well-Known Member

    im 22 & im asking the same too :(
     
  5. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    You have friends here now that can relate i think if you can join a social club like or even take a couple courses that interest you it will help you meet people. Volunteer work anything to get you amonsgst people take care.
     
  6. xXxRNBxXx

    xXxRNBxXx Senior member

    wow they are questions i often ask myself....
     
  7. Chernarus

    Chernarus Well-Known Member

    sounds like you are not as social as you used to be maybe the depression did that to you. It did to me but i kept talking to my friends they are the only thing that makes the pain go away. I hate talking to new people. but it is easy to do it when i am around my friends. Its always easier to talk to someone you know then it is to talk to someone you do not. Just start talking to your old friends and if they are supportive then they are keepers but if they turn their backs then they are of no importance to you. but keep in mind some friends have bad days and it will seem like they do not like you. So try a couple more times before you judge.
     
  8. Kris.T

    Kris.T Well-Known Member

    I ask myself the exact same questions.

    As for answers.. I really wish I could give you some. :( The best I can offer is someone to talk to if you need it.
     
  9. datto

    datto Member

    you read my mind....
     
  10. Tobes

    Tobes Well-Known Member

    thats my life in a nutshell, except I don't want to go out and socialize
     
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