this time i MEAN it!

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by Mightbehere, Jan 22, 2009.

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  1. Mightbehere

    Mightbehere Well-Known Member

    I'm sick of this merry-go round. I;m sick of people ignoring me in chat too, its so cruel and this is ment to be a support site not a bunch of pretentious little F****** and there bitch marathon. I hate this life and nothing ever goes my way.

    loneliness eating me up inside..and I'm only getting older.
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I'm sorry you felt ignored :hug:

    You can PM me anytime you want x
  3. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    I am sorry you feel this way. Is it the same group that seems to do this all the time? As in real life we cannot force people to include everyone, but we can request they be sensitive to each others feelings. I hope things get better for you.
  4. Rachel123

    Rachel123 Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry you feel this way. :(
    I think gentlelady said it right.... Unfortunately people sometimes get left out. I'm sure no one is ignoring you on purpose. I would love to chat with you sometime.
  5. Mightbehere

    Mightbehere Well-Known Member

    I'm hardly a 'fatty' :rolleyes:
  6. helena

    helena Staff Alumni

    Well, last time I was there I at some time got off and said: "I'm going, though I think you didn't even noticed I was here....someone answered we knew you were here,just giving you your brand of silent support :blink:

    I don't mind, Im too slow for chat anyway
  7. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    :hug: Helena!
  8. Mightbehere

    Mightbehere Well-Known Member

    I know the deleted post was abusive, but deleting it just makes me look like an ass if I reply to it...:blink: I can't remember his user name but he sent me a very rude PM as well.

    what an asshole. :laugh:
  9. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    He was banned I believe:blink:
  10. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    the chat can be very cliquey i agree. its hard to break into convos when the clique is there. keep truing tho. i try to talk to everyone but ifnd the chat v depressing when there are in jokes and nobody talks to you unless you are part of their group... not all are like that tho...i iwll look for you in chat

    sam x
  11. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    I think I know the group that you're referring to...
  12. pensive1981

    pensive1981 Well-Known Member

    Wow, cliques on a suicide forum? What's next... :S
  13. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Hey Might Be There,
    From what I hear about chat I know I am not missing anything by not being able to get in there. I find that I spend my time on the forums to be better spent trying to help those who are suffering. It is good therapy for me.
    I normally try to reply to everyone who posts here to let them know that we do care. You don't have to go into chat to seek out that support. I understand how it could make you angry. You need to realize there are alot of us who aren't like that. Why don't you try staying on the forums for a while and see if they aren't more fulfilling to you. I just recently had a bad spell my self but had alot of members rally around me and get me to take my head out of my butt. lol
    There are ppl here who honestly do care. We are here for you if you want the support!!~Joseph~
  14. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Excellent advice Joseph :clap:
  15. Leiaha

    Leiaha Well-Known Member

    Ditto! yeah i totally agree, i often feel ignored in chat too, you will see me say i feel invisible at those times lol. Come in chat and talk :)

    Hope i never ignored you in there :unsure:

    Lea :hug:
  16. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    i think we should all make more effort to talk to everyone esp newbies.. and not spend too much time with in jokes and stuff. nobody likes to feel left out esp not vunerable people.

    leia i am in chat if you want to come say hi x
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