those bitches are gonna tell my parents!!! help!!

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by Blackness, Oct 19, 2007.

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  1. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    just got off the phone to a psychiatrist and they've decided to tel my parents about my suicide method.

    My parents dont even know im depressed or suicidal or even seeking help!

    They are gonna go off!

    What the fuck am i suppose to do? :cry: im so scared:mad::sad:

    They said it was confidential!!!
    LYING BITCHES
    they've made everytig SOOOO much worse.

    should i tell my parents they are overreacting? lie to them?

    cos they're gonna tell em soon anyway!



    ARGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHH fuck
    I dunno what to do :cry:
     
  2. Lady E

    Lady E Well-Known Member

    First off just try and keep calm. Take deep breaths and try not to panic. It's okay to be scared.
    I know how betrayed an angry you feel at your psychiatrist. It's not fair but they are under legal obligation to tell your parents if you are a threat to yourself.
    Lying to your parents will only make things worse and potentially they could use it against you.
    Your parent's have no right to be angry with you. It's your decision to seek outside help, and you have been feeling badly and it's not necessarily something that you can control.
    :hug: my pm box is open if you need to talk
     
  3. Amanda

    Amanda Well-Known Member

    They are under legal obligation to notify your parents if you are a threat to yourself or others. If you are under legal age. I dont know where your from so you should check country's mental health act. They may just be using your suiciality as a threat to get you to not be suicidal... if thats the case its stupid and unethical, but whatever.
     
  4. Jackoboy16

    Jackoboy16 Active Member

    I hate it when they do that, i had a hard time too telling them i wanted to kill my parents in front of them. It took some bottle , now in \mental hospital :)
     
  5. Lead Savior

    Lead Savior Well-Known Member

    My therapist has asked me how I plan to kill myself also, but to my knowledge she hasn't told my parents.

    Perhaps you inadvertently made it sound like a threat, i.e. "I am going to kill myself in X fashion" rather than "If I were to do it, this is how I'd do it"?
     
  6. deathfilled

    deathfilled Member

    they arent supposed to tell your parents...Im so sorry. I would just tell the truth, say "yes, I have these feelings" and if they start yelling at u, point out that it really isnt going to make you feel any better about yourself. Thats what I did...and my mom took it pretty well. <3 good luck :)
     
  7. danni

    danni Chat Buddy

    well from what i heard if its something that gonna hurt or risk losing you, there gonna tell your parents. It is between you and the dr what problems, that they wont tell but over here if i told my dr that i gonna do so and so ect.. then yea they will tell.
     
  8. LittleSparkles13

    LittleSparkles13 Well-Known Member

    If its about hurting yourself, or someone else, they have a legal requirement to tell someone. I think anyway.
     
  9. ShalenaM

    ShalenaM Well-Known Member



    I know..they said that to me too..they said everything would be kept private but called!! That pisses me off!!:dry:
     
  10. xXWhateverItTakesXx

    xXWhateverItTakesXx Forum Buddy

    I had that to hun. It is a legal thing, or so they told me.

    You just have to be strong and it will turn out ok. It doesn't seem like it, but it will <3

    :hug:
     
  11. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    fuck the law...all they care about is money!
    and the possibility of getting sued, they dont care about me, nor do they want to help, if they did care they'd keep their mouths shut and help ME.
    god I hate them soo much and will NEVER go back once they tell. :(
    :mad:
     
  12. expressive_child

    expressive_child Well-Known Member

    What assholes they are!! What they don't know privacy is or what for Christ sake?! This is too much...how are they gonna help anyone if they are being such assholes?!! I hope they won't tell your folks about it! But I think you have to lie to your folks now if you really don't want them to know about this. You may be able to fake it, as if they are just making it big or something. You have to do anything if you don't want your parents to know... I know this must be really hard for you now! Thats because they make it harder when they are supposed to be helping you.. Please take care and stay safe... :hug: :hug: :hug:
     
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