those damn relationships

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by morning rush, Nov 8, 2013.

  1. morning rush

    morning rush Well-Known Member

    apparently my word isn't good enough. I talked about obama care and I thought it was a good idea, his reply?

    I don't know. I will ask my friend what he thought about it, he's good at politics.

    me: right

    well I mean I just don't have an opinion on the subject because I don't know.

    me: ok

    SO apparently what I say means nothing, I mean I'm a canadian girl right? who am I to know anything about politics? Why would what I say have any balance of truth and could be intelligent...no no, yea ask your friend what he thinks and then regurgitated it on me as if it's the law...F**K YOU!

    I am so pissed right now, why do I always fall on those types of guys? I mean if you gotta ask your friends instead of just listening to me for this, what else do you think I know nothing about? what kinds of relationship is that?

    I had that with my father and I don't want it in a romantic relationship...am I demanding too much? is to be in a relationship, you absolutely have to be abused and belittled? i don't get it...
     
  2. meaningless-vessel

    meaningless-vessel Well-Known Member

    Maybe the one you're trying to talk to at the moment isn't right for you.

    I dunno - just an idea but I'm often wrong with these things.. at least know I'm trying even though it might be poor advice.
     
  3. morning rush

    morning rush Well-Known Member

    I think you're right...he's not right for me. But I'm just sad about it, I really wanted it to work but if he never believes what I say, what's the point right?

    thanks for replying :) at least someone replied...
     
  4. meaningless-vessel

    meaningless-vessel Well-Known Member

    He might just have been being honest that he had no opinion on it. But with everything else about him and how he dealt with the "gods/superhero" thing (if it's the same person - and i'm putting 2+2 to get 4), then yeah - you're better off without that level of "follow my lead or I'm not interested" kinda stress...
     
  5. DarkLordVader

    DarkLordVader Well-Known Member

    question is, what attracted you to him in the first place... ask yourself that question...