Hi. I am new to the forum. If this is the wrong place, please delete post or move to correct section. Edit: This is more or less just venting, can just skip to last paragraph if too long. Will try to make it short. Friend in other province messaged online/phone saying she wants to commit suicide as she suspect her boyfriend is cheating on her again. I didn't take her seriously for the first few days until she claimed she prepared living will, gave me her password to her account as she doesn't need it anymore, planned it for several days, attempted yesterday failed, and said will do it with alternate method again that day 5pm when I asked. I met her once, but knew her for the past 9 years (yes once, different province), I know when she is joking; however I feel that she is serious this time (can tell from the phase). Also, her cousin have depression problems + on medication, she is not (not sure if it is a sickness and can relate to family). Since I am only few hours away from 5pm, and she refuse to talk to support lines; I called her province's distress center (not police), hoping they could give me some advice as professionals. Since she just moved with her boyfriend to a small town, I don't know where she is; so all I can provide is phone number, hoping distress center will give her a call. Instead, distress center called the police, and somehow they manage to show up at her door. I wasn't aware that police were involved until the officer called me, I told the officer what was on the chat (I kept talking to her for the past hour). She was taken to the hospital escorted by the officer. Now the problem... She is extremely upset with me and not talking because: 1. I told officer about her relationship problems, which she clearly wish to keep it private. (The general stuff, breakup, makeup, find out seeing someone on side for years. I didn't really pay attention before as I have no interest in those kind of gossip). 2. She didn't want boyfriend to find out until after the "event". I believe she said she talked to him, (speculation start here-> ) but he just don't care/take seriously. 3. She didn't want the police involved, because small town, and if they did stop her its hard for her to live there. In my defense, I didn't except police to be involved. All these are fine. If in future I need to lose friend and to be hated to kept someone alive, I would do it again without hesitation. What bothers me is that I got messages/call from her boyfriend later that night with her account (I assume he check her message history to find me). First thing he said is to sue me for slander, I should just wait as he got lawyers already. Not sure if because she deny about suicide, or he is upset police showed at his house and dental clinic (Yes, he is Dentist). I am not sure dentist take same oath as doctors, but if he ignore "patients" at home, I don't have much faith in his professionalism (Btw I am Accountant at final stages of my professional designation studies). I assumed its just bluff, and told him go ahead if he wish (as I kept the chat log, and don't think I did anything wrong). Then her BF start to swear at me, with the general insults plus how I am not "worthy" as I am a poor person since I make less than he does (he make 600K annual profit as he own the clinic, and sadly Newbie Accountants like me don't make even close to 1/12 of that). After I ignored him, he called me, I hung up, he messaged me "demanding" that I pickup (I think he might have control issues). I am more or less shocked as I expect logic and professionalism from a so called "doctor" (sorry to the dentists reading this ). I guess I just have to vent somewhere, because I don't want to doubt that I did the wrong thing. However, if anyone could comment on how I may have made the situation better (first time, no experience), I would definitely be grateful and learn from it (although I hope I never have to deal with this kind of issues). Thank you in advance as I may not reply to all, and and Cheers.