I don't know exactly what you mean by leaving your girls to move away for happiness...was there bad feelings there?...do you want to talk a bit more about it??
a lot of people move away from their children through different situations in life...
a new relationship, job, retirement..that doesn't mean you are a bad person..it's life..
if your daughter said she wants to help you then you can't be a bad person...
if she didn't want to help you she definately wouldn't have offered...
sounds like she would most likely be happy to be able to do what she can for you...
if you gave it a try with your girls and you felt like it wasn't working then you could rethink your options...
I hope that you will give it a go though..it may be just the thing to give you a reason to go on..
(((hugs)))
a lot of people move away from their children through different situations in life...
a new relationship, job, retirement..that doesn't mean you are a bad person..it's life..
if your daughter said she wants to help you then you can't be a bad person...
if she didn't want to help you she definately wouldn't have offered...
sounds like she would most likely be happy to be able to do what she can for you...
if you gave it a try with your girls and you felt like it wasn't working then you could rethink your options...
I hope that you will give it a go though..it may be just the thing to give you a reason to go on..
(((hugs)))