To a friend...

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by SweetVitriol, Apr 21, 2008.

  1. SweetVitriol

    SweetVitriol Antiquitie's Friend

    It is now one month since my friend and workmate Dr Ian Spanton decided to take his own life..

    Never had I met such a precious, caring and loving man..He dedicated his life to others and yet when his hour of need came, no-one was there for him..

    Even in my own darkness, he never reached out..

    I miss you my friend, I wonder if I was not so wrapped up in my own sorrow that you might of reached out to me and let me carry some of your load..I try to understand what was going through your head when you decided..Some days I even delude myself that I can understand what drove you to end your short life..

    Why do the most precious die so young?
  2. nagisa

    nagisa Chat & Forum Buddy Staff Alumni

    I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
  3. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I am sorry for your loss :hug:
  4. proctor

    proctor New Member

    Hello, I live here in the US and I read your message regarding Ian Spanton. I was wondering what you can tell me about his death. Thank you, Kathy
  5. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry for the loss of your dear friend...:hug: