would you want to know your eldest, only daughter had been raped? what about her dad molestong her, she confronting him and him denying it? also, what if you (the parent) had also been abused as a child and now you had to deal with hearing it from your child? is it better just to not say anything? i'm only wondering to try help her understand why i'm like this, as she keeps saying to me "you have no real reason for being like this..." also as a parent, why would you do such a thing? and then why deny it????? its not like you'd make it up for kicks! just want to know you thoughts thank you. and i would prefer parents thoughts, as my other thread, about rape victims who had said somethign, didnt get many responces.